First sentence read, and done — you're wrong about what the claim is. Read the comment again. It's specifically about being alone with people you are attracted to, not just about males and females. Check your fucking cause crusade and listen to what people are saying.

I don't care who does dubbing. It's not good. The whole idea is not good.

he should have done some parenting and prevented them from playing the game to begin with, and made it crystal clear that he would not allow that game to be played by minors in his home.

Murdering or stealing or leaving the scene of an accident or deceiving people — these things make you a bad person. Making an effort to get someone you like to want to fuck you does not.

All Serpenz seemed to be arguing is that it's not responsible to hang out alone (read: alone usually means just the two of you, not in public) with someone you're attracted to if one or both of you is in a monogamous relationship. I'm really happy for your platonic friendships and I'm gonna let you finish, but your…

Wanting to sleep with someone and only wanting to sleep with someone are unfair things to conflate.

So what you're saying is that a lot or maybe even do, but you are definitely not one of them?

Jesus, dial it back a little bit. We get it, you're a Nice Guy.

And which does the guy who asked the original question sound like he's doing?

Most guys would mention they're dating someone new to their best friend. Sure, I'll agree with that. And he should do that.

Most adult guys (meaning myself and my dude friends, really) don't tell each other every time they are thinking of asking a girl out. Because it could very likely be a rejection and you learn when…

There are in fact relationships statuses between random hookup and future wife.

There is also a big difference between letting him know you and his sister have been dating, and telling him that you're going to try before you even know her feelings on it. Expecting the first is reasonable. Expecting the second is a problem with you.

Families get as much right to inspect suitors and significant others as the family member doing the dating chooses.

Nope.

If you're trying to forget the outcome of that, you need to be reminded. That is an education.

This comment is depressing. The dialogue in Japanese is not good. I mean, I hate dubbing in general and wish it didn't even exist, but — nope.

I want that as bad as you, but we have to face facts.

Dude, just say the information. That already includes the fact that you knew it and we didn't. You don't have to make that the focus of your sentence. It's the verbal equivalent of having bad breath.

This is a universal truth, regardless of gender. If they were going to get divorced, they would've done so already or it would already be in process. Instead, they're having their beefcake and eating it too.

Aaand I'm going to stop you right here, and we can begin to really post-mortem this. Here, you fell victim to one of the classic blunders, the most famous of which is "never pretend you're her friend to get in her pants" but only slightly less well known is this: No matter what they tell you, they are never going to…