YES OMG. THE ARM PUBES. I’m in grad school and a male colleague got in trouble for wearing a tank top. He asked me if I agreed it was unprofessional, and I was like, Dude, if I can see your arm pubes, yes it is unprofessional. BUT I am also a strong advocate for both genders shaving their armpits because arm pubes are…

Yeeessss, somewhat, but the white dudes at my high school totally sagged their pants too and got in trouble for it. Also for wearing shirts with weed paraphernalia. Ahh, skater boys in SoCal.

Ehhh... my elementary school had a dress code and I’m really pretty certain it was because they wanted to maintain a slightly less casual look. Like, you couldn’t wear t-shirts, you had to wear something that buttoned or had a collar. BUT, the dress code also applied to boys and girls. Anyhoo, just wanted to throw out…

Also, study after study has shown that in the US and much of Europe, C-sections increase morbidity and mortality of both the child and the mother. It literally does not save lives when preformed unnecessarily. It puts lives at risk. UGH.

Yeah, a relatively liberal friend of mine said, “Obviously he shouldn’t have been shot, but you shouldn’t run away from the police.” I tried to explain that she is a wealthy white woman and never grew up seeing police beat or kill her friends and family. Maybe she would feel safe not running from police. Maybe he…

YESSS. so much. I am in the process of going off HBC because I am wondering if it is affecting my libido. I’ve been dating my SO for about 5 years, so I don’t know if it’s just that the leveling off that people talk about or if its the birth control :/

I was recently talking to my OBYGYN and voiced the same concern - she said most women go on the IUD after being on the pill for years, and the change they notice in their periods is actually them just going back to “normal.” Basically she said to expect my periods/cramping to be similar to what they were before…

Whenever I see a penis hangin’ low (yes, i am in a long term relationship with a man) I am always struck by how inconvenient they look. Like, how annoying. Its like boobs, but if your boobs were between your legs getting in the way of walking. WTF penises???

Is that lyric slut shaming? The whole song is about her having sex with her hubs, and she definitely isn't shy or shameful about it. I always thought the reference was more supposed to invoke the "scandalous" nature of them gettin' it on in a limo and how sexy it is. *shrug* I do agree witth you that I feel bad for…

At first i disliked the hair. THEN I thought - if wet/greasy hair becomes a fad, I can feel totally hip walking out of the house in wet hair! score!

OK - I am all for yoga pants and leggings as pants - BUT I haaaate when I get dressed up to go to brunch or something and my boyfriend wears basketball shorts and a t-shirt. Holy mooooly it drives me nuts. There is a time and a place, but if your gf is looking good for you, you better look good for her!

Okay real question: why are leggings inherently sloppy? I don't get why they are sloppy at all. In fact, they seem the most streamlined, least sloppy clothing option. Yeah get a pair that fits and is not see-through, but otherwise I really don't get the hate. And I mean this on every body type.

Yeah that was my first impression, too. But also I don't really get how this is that much different from setting up a registry with stupid expensive shit on it or one of those things where instead of buying a gift you buy stuff for their honeymoon. It seems like the exact same thing. I get that asking strangers to…

Honestly I think its three things:

OKAY - I have a question here.

My dad asked me recently if my boyfriend of 5 years and I had discussed whether we wanted kids. Of course we have! That shit comes up. Then my dad revealed that the first woman he married (before my mom) did not want kids but they hadn't talked about it before they got married. Wth! And this is a smart man. HOW does…

Yeah, I know. But it just makes the situation ethically shittier hah

Omg this with the bracelets! I can't handle them. Or they clack everywhere. I feel like I'm shaking my wrists all day.

This is so my mom, too. I really wonder how I will turn out.

Ah, thank you for the clarification. That makes it slightly (SLIGHTLY) less egregious.