and spelling.

Hey, sorry for the go-off; just sensitive about the topic!

Yes, ok, but I'm talking about my experience, not yours. Is it okay to talk about my experience here on Jezebel?

Simple? More like dastardly and brilliant.

Yes! Never did go to his hotel; just dinner in a brightly lit, crowded restaurant, and then blocked him.

Yikes! I guess that must of been that guy's way of trying to tell you that he had an awesome dick or something? It's amazing how any sense of...I don't know, decency? goes out the window because the meet-up happens in an online environment. On the upshot, I guess it's better that they put it out there right away so …

Exactly!

This also happened to me. I met a guy (rebounding after my divorce) and things got serious fast. We were spending a lot of time together, saw each other often at work but I was too dumb to ask why I never met any of his friends or family even though they only lived in the next town. One day he drops the bomb on me…

But he's not happy, his wife is crazy, he's staying for the kids, finances, etc...

OMG, that's exactly right! This guy-who happened to be in town a couple of nights a week on business (huge red flag there)- was all like, "come to my hotel, we'll sit in the hot tub" and then it turned into show me your tits. Yuck!

Wow! Scary. My last online date took me out to dinner once, and after some texting and phone calls expected me to fuck him on our next date. I'm done with that shit.

Yes, physically. That's still some pretty messed up shit.

Dayum.

Holy shit! Can't say that I'm surprised though...something similar happened to me a few years ago. The questions that should pop into someone's mind when things get "serious", if they haven't happened in a timely manner, are: where does my person live and why haven't I been over there? Why haven't I met their…

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nice rug

It's "shave" ice. So good!

Why do you think that "career" jobs and a living wage the same thing? A living wage is a living wage: you're able to pay your bills, feed your family.

For a minute there I thought it said Conservative Mormons and I was like, "WTF LDS?"

No shit! Excellent points.