With all due respect, a man with a boner who won’t take no for an answer is a thing to behold. It’s scary, because as a woman once a man crosses a certain number of social boundaries you have no idea how many more he’ll choose to ignore. Will he hurt you? You don’t know. So the girl gives head to get out of the…

No. I’m guessing you’ve never had a horny man shove your head repeatedly down toward his crotch even though you’ve repeated multiple times you don’t want to; it gets downright scary to say no. A woman who gives in and finally just gets the head over with is not enjoying herself and will feel extremely sad afterward.…

You seriously think every time a man agrees with or compliments a woman, he’s emasculating himself?

I don’t get accusations like this. He’s online, unlikely to get actual attention from a woman for saying that, and clearly joking around about his new female masters, so why on earth does his comment come off to you as desperately seeking approval from women? I myself have been accused on other sites of trying to get…

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Thank you! Men always claim “creepy” = physically unattractive when that’s never what I’ve meant. Creepy is ignoring social norms and boundaries in a way that makes me feel unsafe and/or uncomfortable, thanks for listening guys.

I dunno about a shirt but I once accidentally stole an eyeliner from Walgreen’s because I am a spacey mofo & as my mom was checking out I just completely forgot I was holding it. She paid for everything else we bought but we got all the way to the car before I realized. (I would have gone back in & paid for it but my…

Women aren’t allowed to be unsympathetic narrators in my experience. Like in life OR fiction.

You’re right. It’s not society. It’s physicality. I am smaller than most men, therefore always scared, therefore even if I don’t want sex I am genuinely terrified to say no to it, especially if I “led him on” by going on a fucking voluntary date with him.

1) It’s not body shaming if it’s in your own head. Are we literally thought policing now? You can’t notice your partner is unattractive to you? Sorry, my bad, I forgot men are allowed opinions but women aren’t even when they have enough tact to not say anything out loud, which men do ALL THE TIME.

You’re mostly right here, but as a woman, we don’t have the right to feel someone out and see if we want to fuck them and have mixed feelings about it. She spends the entire story going back & forth on the issue; men are allowed to do this. No man feels scared if he gets a woman right to the point of having sex and…

The point is most humans expect more maturity out of a thirty-four-year-old than a twenty-year-old, for starters. It always astonishes me when men date someone significantly younger than they are and then complain she’s immature. You want a young, tight body? Fine, take the personality, immaturity, and lack of…

All three female characters in Vicky Cristina Barcelona, ScarJo in Match Point, & Cate Blanchett in Blue Jasmine (that was like watching my mother come to life on a screen).

I liked it but I’m not getting how the main character is rewarded? He seems pretty miserable to me. He sold his soul to marry rich and has to lie in the bed he made.

People who are blackout can seem pretty normal. I went to a college with a huge drinking culture and I was definitely shocked sometimes to hear a friend had been blacking out; they seemed intoxicated, but not more than any other night out. They were holding conversations just fine.

Now you’re reminding me of Superman & Lois’s dynamic. :/ She’s always helpless even though she thinks she’s capable & he’s always saving her. Boooooo.

You’ve clearly never seen Chris Pine as Prince Charming in Into the Woods. Just find the scene where he rips his shirt open in leather pants, please. Might change your mind. ;)

I 100% agree only black people should use the word. I edit myself even rapping along at home.

I personally always rap the word “playa” or, if the word is referring to the person rapping, “woman”. Is that bad or acceptable? I thought it was a good alternative...

I was once getting to know a new friend when we were hanging at her place & she whipped out “veggie sticks” (potato sticks with spinach and/or carrot powder) & proclaimed them gluten-free!