Eh, I’m sure that in those 5 years, they exchanged jokes, stories, plans, and a bevy of other intimacy-building material, including but not limited to him complaining about his wife’s behavior and how she just doesn’t ‘get him’ the way his other love interest does. Add in the jerk-off photos and you’ve basically got…

“you people”—admit it, you mean “you women”.

Cool, every woman here is nuts. Alternatively, you and this husband are terrible partners and have poor judgment

What the fuck year is it in that house? Be honest, that’s a set shoot from Miami Vice right? Scarface’s mansion with the tigers in the yard was more tasteful than that.

God I wonder how much cocaine and semen you’d find if you swabbed for it...

It’s like they watched “Beetlejuice” and said “Hold my sangria”

If I remember correctly from an interview I listened to recently, they have tons of people who clean their houses, including the mother of a student she mentors (And the student helps during the summer) and she pays them “generously” whatever that means.

that is vile slander towards cunts and i shall not stand for it

I manage supportive housing for the formerly homeless, and that house is bigger than our facility that houses EIGHTY PEOPLE. ::eye twitch::

But what does a family even do with that much space? If that were my place I would have whole wings I never went into. I’d put my phone down somewhere and it would take me weeks to find it again. My kids would probably accidentally murder each other while playing and I wouldn’t even realize it for hours. And imagine…

I’d just like to note that at 22,000 square feet, this house officially has 10 times the finished space that my house (which houses myself, my husband, our two children, and our two cats) has.

Thank you for the entertaining phrase “interactive porn.”

The advice in this post is so off.

Right? I had someone on another post basically tell me everyone cheats in some way... FOH with that garbage. It’s actually pretty easy not to choose to cheat and anyone who thinks otherwise sets off massive alarm bells

this isn’t your wife hopped up on hormones, this is a woman who’s husband engaged in a years long affair and went to great lengths to cover it up.

sure you did.

Not to mention-this man has been cheating for a long fucking time. This isn’t an “I think my husband *might* be cheating and I’m going to file for divorce” slow your roll and fact find situation. He did this shit. He wants to fuck another woman while his wife is pregnant. He’s a fuckface. Pregnant or not,…

What a heartbreaking thing to have to go through, let alone while pregnant. I come from the school of “one a cheater, always a cheater.” I learned that the hard way. But to cheat on your pregnant wife, that’s just a new low.

I’m over here like, what? Her whole relationship has been a lie and she’s about to bring a kid into it and people are ‘hur dur, welp, she gave him an ultimatum, how else was he supposed to respond?’ Life is only messy when you fail to make the difficult decisions. Staying with him makes her and her daughter’s life…

women can still make important decisions while pregnant. this is biological essentialism and it’s bullshit. please don’t lecture women on dealing with their “hormones”—it’s patronising and sexist.