There are two wolves inside you. One laments the death of Google Reader. The other uses some other RSS reader

Better at sex or better from being murdered? #askingforafriend #askingforanotherfriendwhoisinnowayanecrophiliac

This story brought to mind a wonderful memory. Mary & Hugh.
An aged bohemian couple, who lived in unmarried bliss in a wonderful ex-whorehouse near Long Beach (with red flocked wallpaper, numbers were still over the bedroom doors and the bathroom had a hidden panel to a sun porch to hide the sailors when the shore…

I see where all this is coming from but it feels like abortion by mail is being unfairly dismissed here. It should not be THE solution (especially since it only works for first trimester abortions), but it is overall safe and very effective for people who live in places with overall limited access to healthcare.…

Waiting for Kia to come out with a K5 Day Line (ahhhh ahhhh ah) Edition to fight against the Night Line (ahhhh ahhhh ah), a champion of the Sun (ahhhh ahhhh ah)

A liiiiittle tl;dr... and this is kind of parallel to the main topic here but I will say... Please do see race. See it every single time. For PoC race is our reality and most of us deal with it in some way daily. We don’t have the option to just pretend it’s not a thing so the whole “I don’t see race” thing is…

Not surprised you are a man. Men don’t get the weight pressure that women do, at all. Oh, sure, you probably get some (but, since you are naturally thin, you probably have never got the pressure) but not like women. It’s constant from childhood.

Many years ago I had a coworker in his mid-20s who got one of the very rare and unfun types of cancer. He was a tall guy, looked average-to-thin for his age and height. He lost a good bit of weight fairly quickly. He once commented that some people mentioned that he looked so skinny and so great. He half-jokingly…

This isn’t about “pussyfooting around.” It’s about thinking before you speak.

See and I’m the complete opposite. Anytime anyone asks me one of these questions I don’t mind telling them, and it makes me proud. But unlike you mine wasn’t medical, though it would have been if I kept going in the direction I was going. I lost 143 pounds since last February. I’m proud of it, so I don’t mind the…

I recently had to explain to my mom who I am incredibly close to and knows when my mental health is suffering that its hurtful when she comments on my weight loss due to depression. She honestly thought she was being nice and helpful by saying I looked great, and her heart was in teh right place. But I wasn’t losing…

As someone who drops weight like crazy during times of high anxiety or a depressive episode I second this.

Honestly, even a lot of people that I’m pretty close friends with (including family) didn’t know my pandemic weight loss was depression & medical issues. Unless you know for sure the person was actively trying to lose weight, it’s best to just not comment.

Thank you for sharing your personal experience and feelings. For what it’s worth, sending positive vibes.

My brother’s weight loss is from brain cancer and my weight loss is because I forget to eat when I’m depressed.

I’m a woman who lived with two men in my early 20s. Hooked up with one about a month before he was going to move out. It was fun!

And were most marriage actually happy? Genuine question here, I don’t know the stats.

This is a terrible idea in the vast majority of cases — even worse than hooking up with a coworker — do not recommend.