Thank you!

Love is a verb before it's a noun sometimes. You're doing everything right. 

So, an update on my post from last weekend about my anger toward my husband for not pulling his weight with nighttime feedings / soothing: he is now doing what we agreed to before the baby was born and handling all night on Friday and Saturday nights since I do it Sunday through Thursday while I am still on maternity…

His (her?) smile in the second picture made me laugh. He looks funny, mischevious, a bit of a wiseass but def. sweet. I can’t explain his expression. It’s awesome. 

Hey love. You can have the baby and also weather this mess with your marriage. Your husband is a mess but don’t let that make your decision for you. This is YOUR choice, you do whatever the fuck you want, and don’t let his bullshit get to you.

This is Ollie, he’s 14. He was living at the homeless hostel I used to live at and moved with me when I moved into my own place, love him to pieces. 

Unless you really enjoy the drama you need to stop talking with her altogether. She's not trustworthy. And she's willing to put you in a difficult position.

I follow you on Twitter and have been sending you silent well wishes. Your baby looks perfect and amazing! Yay you guys!

No. Men have sexual power in the sense that they routinely rape women without consequence. In the sense that women’s sexuality and aesthetics are shaped around men’s desires. In the sense that mainstream media, advertising, pornography, are all built around meeting men’s sexual wants. In the sense that women’s safety…

Nanette is probably the most powerful thing I have ever seen. That is not hyperbole either. 

Thank you, Kender, and I see you.

Hugs to you (if you’d like them). I’m sorry those painful things happened to you.

You know that Netflix makes non-comedy things, right? Like, why are so many people shocked by this? The trailer is super clear about how it’s not a traditional comedy show.

Sorry, but there were definitely jokes. You just didn’t find them funny. I’m glad it’s categorized as a comedy special on Netflix, and I happen to appreciate that there are multiple ways to do comedy outside of the traditional stand-up.  

Definitely not. But it did provide several moments where I could see a light bulb of recognition and awareness happen in my spouse that hadn't occurred before which is a plus. But no I don't believe it's calculated to appeal to men she just took in consideration of men being part of her audience. 

I laughed very very hard. Repeatedly. I also cried. If you are also capable of a wide range of emotions you may enjoy it.

Esposito’s Rape Jokes is more traditional standup with a fantastic perspective -- the way she breaks down the information through her comedy is amazing. I highly recommend, and as someone who works in health and education I plan to screen her set to students in the future. I will also screen Nanette, but probably as…

This is amazingly written. I hope we get to see more from you, Sara, on this site. I watched Nanette and was referred to Esposito’s Rape Jokes, which I watched immediately. I appreciate that they approach the topic of assault and rape cultural from two completely different angles (Esposito’s is more traditional stand…

So far he sounds cool. Does he listen when you have problems? Does he encourage you when you are down? How do you feel after seeing him? Are you refreshed and happy you two were together or depressed and analyzing the things he said that made you feel bad? Trust your instincts, they are usually right and we mess up…

Learning to braid sounds like a nice guy thing to do.