Yeah, this is exactly what I was thinking. This seems so unprofessional to me. An actress who isn't as well-established would have been replaced if she wasn't off-book early on. And like, Lindsay Lohan, you are an actress. Memorizing lines is a fundamental and important part of that job. If you can't do it...…

Maybe this is just because I am a coward and I'm terrified of confrontation, but I pretty much always ghost if I've been going out with someone for less than three months. If they contact me and seem kind of upset and are like, "what happened?" then I will say something vague about how I have a lot going on (which is…

Not because there is anything innately dumb about the accent — clearly it's purely a matter of bias — but because everyone aiming to succeed in most industries learned quickly that sounding super Southern was a liability.

I'm from the south and I've had the same experience! I went to college in New Jersey and I guess I suppressed my accent after people kept asking me stupid shit like whether I lived on a plantation (I wish I was kidding). When I went back home for Christmas everyone was like, "you lost your accent!" but people up at…

That's exactly what it means. When she said that, I think my chin hit the floor.

Oh, well, if he was renting I can certainly see why he thought of himself as homeless.

Exactly! It's so frustrating. And, while money is always pretty tight for me because of school, I feel quite privileged to have a full-time job, a place to live, healthcare etc.

I mean, I'm pretty sure I said in my post that I'm lucky and privileged because I get to go to graduate school. I don't feel entitled, I feel grateful, even when I have to do things like skip dinner.

Difference: when you make $400k per year, you can cut expenses and still have leftover money. When you make $9/hr, there is nothing to cut.

Oh for god's sake. I just can't believe someone proposed this and no one was like, "hey, uh, that's kind of tone deaf and also offensive." I've seen things like this before and they always make me roll my eyes so hard I give myself a headache.

It is sociopathic that you have no sympathy for someone who was brutally attacked and beaten. Regardless of the circumstances. No one deserves that. Be a fucking human being.

Sure, if you've had a string of bad relationships you might want to take a look at who you're attracted to. But you said that for the most part women choose men who are bad for them because the men are attractive. Which is false and also offensive.

This is a completely ridiculous thing to say on many different levels.

Why on earth would you "have to ask" this? Are you implying that it's her fault that she was brutally assaulted because she dated a guy who ended up being horrible?

Yeah, which should be so baffling, logically speaking. I mean, if you are pro-life because of religious beliefs, then that probably means you believe killing is wrong (not that you have to be religious to believe that, obviously). But so many pro-lifers are also pro-death penalty and are shockingly quick to jump on…

I understand that you're presenting an opposing view, and you'll notice that nowhere in my post did I accuse you of discrediting discomfort. I kept it very general because I don't know you so I can't pass judgment on what you're like in real life.

But you didn't demonstrate that at all because the two things are so totally different. Why can't I deem having a stranger approach me to comment on my appearance to be inappropriate? It's really rude to do things that you know make other people feel uncomfortable because it's a way of saying that doing what you want…

THIS:

Yes, there is a difference. The second one makes me scared I'm going to be followed home/assaulted and the first one just makes me feel like I want to permanently place a paper bag over my head so I can get on with my day without dudes treating me like I'm decoration.

The statement "black people should be free" is a threatening statement to an 18th century plantation owner.