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God Joan Cusack is amazing. I got over her brother years ago, but I will never get over her, the weirdo.

All boys are men and all women are girls, so sayeth the Cruz.

I don’t really think it is, but I really like posting Chris Evans gifs.

Or Japan needs a national conversation about storm control.

Is it just me or was that headline kind of confusing?

Blu Ray is still popular??

I keep trying to tell myself school will be better since I want to be there and it’s a MBA program that should have moments that relate to my job.

Why is he allowed to show his nipples? Man has boobs and he's not trying to breastfeed anyone so I see zero reason why this is ok if it's not ok for me to let my natural God made breasts out.

I’d recommend getting fired. It worked out for me! But I couldn't hide how miserable I was anymore.

Do only exactly what is expected of you and no more. Never arrive early and never stay late. And don’t check your work email or answer work calls on the weekend. And start planning fun things for yourself on Fridays or Saturdays (a nice dinner out, a concert, Netflix and pizza, a fun hike, whatever will make you look

I just had my ACL replaced with a cadaver part a little over two weeks ago and yesterday I was allowed to do ten minutes on the bike at PT! Little things! I also went out to dinner with friends and turns out 50% of us are part zombie - I’m a skier, and my friends are a dancer and an archaeologist.

Try to compartmentalize - leave the job at the job; work out to relieve stress, and begin your job search: update your resume, create an online portfolio to showcase your strengths, get involved in your local/state/national professional association to take advantage of professional development, networking, and job

Do things in your free time that counteract what sucks in your job, things that make you happy and fulfilled. Start small.

I took up trampolining the year I the people at work were giving me ulcers. I felt so much dread on sunday evenings, so I found a class on Sunday nights, and it really helped kill the anxiety. I also went through a lot of Soho. Exercise and drinking are the way to go! Good luck!

Talking with friends, especially one that understands the bullshit you’re going through. It’s so tough to deal with, I know this to be true having to deal with workplace bullying. Lucky for me that person isn’t here anymore, so now the path to improvement (both physically, mentally) is wide open. Hope your situation

Spend the money you make at your job buying things you enjoy and or require to live.

Is there anything that can help you destress after work?

I quit mine, but that’s not always possible...good luck!

Not entirely on my own merits, but after two weeks of flirting with hospital admission for preeclampsia, the doctor put me on blood pressure meds and they started working today. 117/77! We’re looking to make it to June, and this gives us a fighting chance.