I don’t know. It probably is, and since we’re gonna be bombarded with insane amounts of radio play I make a point of not seeking out these awful or mediocre new releases because they’ll find their way to me (looking at you, Ed Sheeran).

Taylor Swift is an underdog...

Oh god, that’s the worst. When that happens to me I just let it go, I don’t star (those who would merit) or respond in any way. I imagine you feel strongly about that old topic but it’s gone, just harrass me on a newer post, please.

He IS a poet and also a superb storyteller. That’s what every songwriter should be but his sophistication is unparalleled. Lígia fucks me up every time (Tom Jobim’s version is a killer too, they actually collaborated a lot for this song to get made), Apesar de Você reminds me of my dad laughing at how smart the lyrics…

Truth. I laugh at memes like this one all the time but fuck me if this isn’t exhausting and damaging to the relationship.

Hey there querida! I spent the week in NYC working and catching up with friends so I haven’t been around much. But now I’m at the airport and alllll over SNS!

My sentence of choice to describe the extension of the work I’ve had done is “I have a car in my mouth”.

Oh man, I know exactly how you feel. My teeth are incredibly shitty and I’ve spent years in treatment to correct previous work and do some new stuff. I’m now the proud owner of crowns, implants and a bridge (we tried an implant twice and after two weeks the screw thingy would come out of my bone. You can imagine the…

After the whole “would got his taxes! Oh, wait, move along, nothing to see here” debacle I’m really not into her show any more. That was an unpleasant and unnecessary emotional rollercoaster.

That is so cool! Wow, congrats! And I’mma check it out :D

I know, right? Makes you wonder how people navigate on this site, like, what their patterns are. I get bored when I have to go back once to look at the older posts.

Yeah, I know what that feels like. I’m not a confrontational person, don’t take part in countertrolling etc, so when people go apeshit over something I said I just have to take a deep breath to deal with it, and the next day I’m like “I’m not commenting on anything today, I’ve had enough of this shit yesterday”.

Congrats! As for advice, just fight fair when you have to, and remember that saying something bothered you right after it happens is 1000x better than letting it blow up as an argument later. Try to put yourself in your partner’s shoes from time to time, because lack of empathy can destroy relationships. On the other…

Oh, YNAB (You Need a Budget) is a lifesaver. Really recommend it, it’s even better now that’s a webapp and there’s also a phone app to facilitate entering everyday expenses on the go.

Your update made me tear up. I think about you and your baby regularly,and the most random times of the day, and wonder how you guys are doing. She’ll pull through, babies are incredibly tough. You’re right in resting up and just recognizing this is too overwhelming at times. I’m sending good vibes all the way to…

Oh, all the time. It took me years to go from lurker to poster and sometimes I regret that decision entirely. The worst part is having people reply to disagree and argue days after you commented on something. Like, look at the date, let it go, people.

This is looking more Watergate-esque by the day. I suppose it’s a good thing, especially if the outcome is the same.

Is it receding? Never even noticed. The baby face distracts me.

Or until he accidentally rips her fishnet bodysuit. You know she won’t stand for that shit!

I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to shame you! My “ew” comment was more related to the fact that Swift’s persona and (argh) brand are largely desexualized, and selecting this kind of man fits within that infantilizing, twee purpose. She might just genuinely like this kind of guy but it adds to her squeaky clean image, you…