More along the lines that I got distinct THIS IS THE WAY THERE ARE NO EXCUSES feels from this whole thing, rather than “You know? This may vary quite a bit from person to person, so the best advice of all is to figure what your partner needs by figuring those out with her instead of doing techniques the internet…

Almost all of this can be correct or incorrect, except for part about asking your partner.

online TRAs - not trans people, not TRAs, but online TRAs

I have often wondered about how much is me, how much is society shaping my desire, and how much it just doesn’t matter because it just fucking sex.

and none that quite so effectively turned me on

prolonged scenes of men vomiting at the thought of being attracted to trans women (in Crying Game)...as well as an unnecessary last-minute trans reveal...that ruins Soapdish

she’s naked in more ways than one

I am in agreement that the stigma surrounding herpes far surpasses its actual impact, but if this is how Dr. Shah counsels her patients I hope I never have sex with any of them or for that matter, anyone who has hooked up with them.

There’s a constant game of turning a customer on, implying they’re hot, rubbing against them, and generally pretending that something is going to happen...right up until the 3 songs end.

(double kinja’d post deleted).

I won’t link it since these women have had their privacy violated enough, but there’s both evidence that strongly supports these guys are hideous, and also other evidence that supports that at least some of the other women involved signed contracts without duress.

Since most Jezzies aren’t going to be familiar with how strip club sales and economics work within the US and this piece doesn’t do a particularly good job explaining it, I’m going to try to clarify a few things.

I wouldn’t worry about it. It’s not well known, but the vast majority of US blood banks are non profits that essentially act like for profits (including, I believe the ARC.) Blood banks provide a valuable service, but they’re certainly no moral angels despite their marketing. In fact, in the old days there’s a pretty…

And rates of STIs may get worse, especially with cuts to the Teen Pregnancy Prevention Program (to instead promote abstinence only, which research has shown to be ineffective) and Title X funding that supports STI screenings for low-income people.

Unless you’re trying to be really disingenuous, I don’t see the Tom Hardy picture as particularly curious. For those living under a rock, Hardy got hounded by the press in 2015, including your dearly departed sister site, for his potential bisexuality.

the squeamish public is less squeamish about content that explores taboo themes if a woman creates it versus a man

Even though she didn’t comment on it, the show itself provides a pretty good answer to why Real Sex got pulled.

We’re just trying to help you correct the inadvertent oversight that somehow kept this marvelous story from being part of your ‘around the world in 80 lays’ blog.

The only man who has ever sent me nudes he could be easily identified from had also worked in porn.

even in the darkest years of the mid-’90s