I don’t think it’s abuse or anything like that and wouldn’t go so far as to say it’s indicative of being “massively fucked up” but it does sort of make you wonder what unresolved issues she might have. Sort of like women who serially pursue married men for whatever reason. I’d say it’s at least kind of dysfunctional.…

I’m clearly in the minority here so don’t attach too much importance to my opinion.

Yeah I can imagine that would be a hot scenario, at age 16. I’m 36. The idea of shagging a virgin man in my age range at this point in my life just sounds fucking weird and not worth the trouble.

Not really, though I might have been a little hyperbolic. I just personally have no interest in dating a virgin and I admit I would find it a little weird when people attack so much importance to it, especially when they don’t even have religion as a pretext.

They usually to hand in hand though. I would consider dating a 30 year old virgin if he weren’t religious. Though I’d still be somewhat concerned about someone making it to that age a virgin when there was no religious crap stopping him. Sex is a normal, healthy part of life for me and I admit I’m a little weirded out…

Does she have some weird kink about deflowering virgin men?

Suri’s better off without him and his krazy kult of xenu.

He raped Lewisnky? Are you on crack?

Your reading is incorrect.

These statements are usually drafted by lawyers and that is the language lawyers use. It's really that simple. And means exactly the same thing.

I'm sorry but what does race have to do with it?

Poor baby. I’m not the one hurling insults because I can’t deal with people who disagree with me and because my arguments don’t live up to scrutiny and make no sense. Insults are the domain of the intellectually weak.

No, disingenuous is you saying you don’t judge women for their sexual fantasies and that they’re free to do what they want but that the men who live out those fantasies with them are depraved quasi-rapists and that women are essentially enabling the rape of other women by doing so. Just stop it with your nonsense and…

You’re hilarious. How I choose to fuck or what goes through my mind when I masturbate have no hearing on you and aren’t causing other women to get raped. Get a fucking grip.

Your ignorance is showing. What, exactly, is a “rape fetish”?

So you agree there’s a lot of hysteria and misunderstanding, and yet instead of blaming people for being hysterical and not using their heads, you choose to blame the words?

What’s making you ill? People getting a little fed up with being called insane and having kinks (and pretty common ones at that) described as mental illnesses, despite people's attempts at a discussion in good faith?

I don’t believe in trigger warnings actually. Your point?

What you call “degrading” and “humiliating” isn’t actually either of those things it’s happening among consensual adults and in a controlled environment where you’re free to stop at any moment just like any other timeout have consensual sex with someone. A rape fantasy isn’t rape because everyone is consenting to…

We switch it up actually. What does that say about us that we get off on playing both roles?