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Empathy for assholes who treat people - women - like absolute shit and then whine about not getting laid? Figgidy fuck yourself, seriously. If these assholes didn't objectify women to the extent of only finding the skinny white sorority girl 1% to be even worth consideration, their problems would be gone - okay,

"These people"... bro, YOU are sick. Sick, sick, sick. Know what the truth is? There is no universally attractive type of dude in terms of looks/anything physical. There are some pretty universally attractive dudes in terms of personality, which generally matters way more. They are gracious, open-minded, and treat

Allow me to reword this very simple idea: if other people (men) didn't let men assault women, it wouldn't happen! If, in say clubs, bouncers did their fucking jobs and all the dudes there expected that dudes wouldn't behave this way because it wasn't okay, then if some dude started grabbing or gropping a woman,

In brackets you'd recognized that this issue effected one gender more, the rest of the post was how this effects men because you are apparently addicted to making everything about men. And some of this issue is about men - the whole men killing women bit - so I was suggesting you go take it up with men.

"I just wanted to have a chance, like anyone else would."
This is exactly what you have, congrats. What makes you entitled is that you don't see it/clearly don't think it's enough. Stop derailing this otherwise important thread with your pity plight already - leave!!!!!!!!!!!

Yep, you're in a bubble. I live in Canada too, and this shit is the story of my life.

Every time you type bullshit like this, you excuse and normalize that behaviour and thus become complicit in it.

Is it sexist to say fuck off and go tell some other forum about what a nice guy you are? Because we're processing how a dude saying shit like that killed women, okay? Your shit is destined to not go over well here. GTFO.
Ugh. I really, really don't want to give you the impression that I care what you've written, but if

Yeah, no. See the thing is, it's not women that allow this behaviour.

Yes, right?! Just a random pejorative with an unusually high likelihood of leading to violence. Stop belittling.

If you *actually* give a shit, then instead of trying to disassociate yourself, take on other dudes and dude culture. Dudes listen to dudes, they sure as shit don't listen to us.

Fuck yourself! All assaults and harassment are worth concern. You actually cannot possibly understand.

So you see them assaulting women and possibly eventually coercing them into sexual activity? But you DO something about it, right? Like, not just stand there and fucking wish you were that guy, right?
<shudder>

4) potentially get beaten to death.
Telling women to be more violent is not the answer.

If you think the friendzone is a thing that actually exists, you need to gtfo, now. This isn't about you, and your inability to get the relationship you want is not something you should be okay with bringing up in a thread where women are bravely confronting the violence that controls much of our lives.
Even using the

Let's focus on that last part you put in brackets, okay? And that first part? Go share that with a bunch of dudes somewhere and use it to rile them up about taking on entitled douchebag misogynists, kay? That's where it belongs.

Yeah, and you'd so know because.....? (Important hint: being an ass is actually not a relevant qualification)

Just don't touch people without permission or act like anyone owes you reciprocation of your feelings and you're pretty much golden.

Aaaaand, your need to post that here is really a problem. This is a really important thread and conversation, and it's not about you, and it's not concerned with what you're scared of.

Thank-you for starting this thread, heartbreaking as it is. We soooo need to name this shit, but I find it can be hard to even realize how deep it goes because it is so ingrained. I'm reflecting, reading all of this, on the fact that the majority of my young years were spent trying to avoid male violence - too often

Minor point, I know, but bro, your envisioning sucks.
"Start envisioning a world where WOMEN FEAR YOU"
Ummm, take a look around. This is what it looks like. You're terrifying, and so are dudes like you, dudes who may be like you, and other fucking maddeningly visually indistinguishable groups of dudes. Welcome to that