This is my *dream.* Though I'd like to make a house for disabled animals. Like a room dedicated to blind cats with no high places to fall from and padded corners so they don't get hurt if they run into anything (my boy runs into the walls all the time...more because he's clumsy than because he's blind.) Rooms with…

I'm 34 and the last time I wore a dress was to my senior prom. But you know...I rocked that dress. It was a totally new experience to be in a flowing white gown (with an open back!!) and to wear my hair up (still no make-up though.) Stepping out of your style (or in my case *no* style) can be just a really fun…

Honestly I started finding it ugly when he started making everyone's nose weirdly red. Now I find it too hideous to enjoy. I really do prefer the old style.

Wouldn't setting up a new account with a new email be the easiest and most reliable method? It seems like no one else is doing that, which makes me worry there's some sort of problem with doing it that way? Are the accounts centered on debit card/credit card number or address instead of email?

Wouldn't setting up a new account with a new email be the easiest and most reliable method? It seems like no one…

I think people also kind of assume that most woman already *know* fashion dos and don't and thus underestimate the comfort of having them spelled out. I'm not thinking so much of the Spanx part, but how heavy make-up should be in the evening vs. the day, or how fancy is too fancy, or even if that nude pump *is* out…

I can absolutely understand the feeling of comfort of having things spelled out. I have social anxiety issues that mostly revolve around not knowing the 'rules' for new situations, so that even something simple like getting a massage for the first time becomes an ordeal. Do I tip? Do I take off my bra/underwear? …

It really is. :( He's one of those people who thinks that if *he* feels he's an ally, then he is...regardless of what the people he's supposedly an ally of feel. (He's been glitterbombed three times by trans activists over his use of slurs and *still* proclaims he's a great trans ally.) Maybe his advice works for cis…

Right? Like even if you wanted to argue that it's a god given right of all men to piss upright, it sure as hell isn't a god given right not to run a wet paper towel around the floor afterward. This isn't about urinating sitting down vs. standing, it's just about being a lazy slob.

Basically, he believes that bisexuals are likely to cheat or aren't looking for long-term relationships, and so suggests that people who *are* looking for something long-term would be better served to not even bother with bisexuals. He also blames bisexuals for the shit they face from the gay community. He feels…

Well, unless you happen to be a nerd who is trans, bi, or asexual. :( Dan Savage is really only an ally of people just like him.

I was diagnosed with severe IBS in high school...my stomach hurt all the time, to the point I sometimes had to stand during classes. My mom used to drive to the school during lunch to give me a dose of Pepto. The doctors tried a very different meds that were supposed to slow the motility of the intestines (IBS comes…

Wait...does that mean that if I live sinfree I'll be period free? Because that might be the only possible reason I would even consider converting. Christians really ought to post that on the Church signs!

I had a childhood friend who was weird to begin with and became increasingly creepy as we grew older. We drifted apart after high school and he would randomly contact me once a year or so to see a movie (and would *always* start talking about sex during these encounters.)

No blame? Then why are you saying she doesn't come off great either?

I go to a lot of cons where new games are play tested. It is amazing how much of my feedback is along the lines of: "Yeah, it was fun and all...but it's a damn good thing you were there to tell me if I hit stuff or not, because I never had the slightest clue what I was supposed to role when, and I never understood…

Thanks for the info! Unfortunately, this is something we're already aware of and have discussed with her medical team. They don't feel it's the root cause of her issues, but the sad fact is that even if it were, it's simply impossible to get her to take antibiotics. It's difficult to get her to take anything,…

This is one of the things I struggle with so much. I had a wonderful childhood growing up. Now my mother is severely mentally ill and suffering from dementia, and I serve as her primary caretaker. She is very often emotionally abusive, to the point I've been driven to hysterical tears four times in a single day. …

My argument isn't that *I* lived. It's that *almost all* children survive being free range, at least in this country. That's not a matter for debate...we have the facts and figures to back it up. A child has a much greater risk of dying while in a car than they do walking a block to the library, yet we don't assume…

To me, it feels like the exact same feeling I get when I'm entering a sleep paralysis episode. Sort of a vibration, buzzy thing? But when I go off Zoloft I feel that sensation every single time I move. Like if I'm sitting and adjust my leg or arm...bam, weird ass brain vibration.

Kids the world over somehow manage to survive without their parents atop them from dawn to dusk. Presumably these parents know their kids better than you do, and know how much responsibility they can handle. Maybe you couldn't handle a walk with an older sibling at that age, but I could (and very, very regularly…