It’s this for me. Until you’ve attended a women’s sports event that a relative or friend wasn’t in, your opinion on trans women in women’s sports is irrelevant.

Agreed on Jacob Knowles. His videos soothe my soul.

Weaponizing your eating disorder by literally starving your children is a whole new level of fucked up.

Cherry tomatoes are served best in fauxprese salad — cherry tomatoes, tiny mozzarella balls (ciliegine), fresh basil and balsamic vinagrette. Late summer perfection.

“My desire in that moment was exactly the same as if I’d have been kissing one of my daughters.”

I tend to agree with you. Do I think many of the incidents happened? You bet. Do I think Lizzo doesn’t see them as harassment but as “interactions between friends”. Yep.

Because of the collaborative nature of a lot of art, people feel more relaxed than they do in an office setting, which means boundaries get loose.…

while still, [sic] others point to menstrual cycles as a potential cause.

My bet is that the Texas school system is so effing bad that the cops saw the “AR” abbreviation and thought “Arizona” instead of “Arkansas”. Arizona is “AZ”.

This people could’ve died because a cop got a D in 5th grade civics.

I came here to post exactly this. This toad doesn’t deserve to be on the same planet as that goddess.

And if the person said the room was a safe bunker to store his guns away from the kids and/or their “safe room” when the apocalypse starts, you might not question it too much.

I’m trying to figure out why she did this. Did she want attention and not think of the consequences? Did she think she could keep lying and somehow sell her story?  I’m just perplexed as to what the whole point of this was.

Don’t shame someone for gaining weight when they have a health condition.

Y’all if you must throw something at your favorite performer on stage, take a clue from Tom Jones fans: throw your undies.

And if that doesn’t appeal to you, try dollar bills. No one complains about money being thrown at them.

Dudes love that shit. “I love your free spirit”. Then the woman exhibits said free-spirited behavior.  “But not like that.”

Boundaries are about your behavior and what you do, not about the other person. If you don’t want your girlfriend to have swimsuit photos online, you take the action to find a girlfriend who isn’t a professional surfer (or just one who doesn’t post swimsuit shots). Your boundary doesn’t proscribe your partner’s…

I assume most white people whose ancestors came to America before slavery was abolished have slaveholders in their family tree. I assume my previous family members may have been slave owners, but I’m unclear just when we first arrived in the U.S.

I’m not sure what the purpose of this investigation into these specific…

Seriously, Billy Joel wrote a whole song about it.

You misunderstand me. I’m saying that cancellation is not a new phenomenon. People without power have been vilified by people with power in the workplace (and lost work) as long as there have been workplaces. If people without power are starting to be able to vilify those with power and have it actually mean…

I did sun tea until I started cold brewing. The flavor on the cold brew is better, less acidic. I mix it up before bed and it’s ready in the morning. I even add a bit of sugar or honey to enhance flavor. Easy peasy.

Absolutely. People got “cancelled” during the Red Scare and their lives and careers were destroyed. Women were ostracized because they supposedly slept their way to the top. We have never had due process when it comes to work.