My point is that anywhere you have men in power (everywhere) you have sexual assault. Women are always vulnerable to powerful men and millions of women have been victimized with their clothes on. I do not believe that there are a higher proportion of abusers in massage than in any other profession.

It is absolutely untrue that an “inordinate” number of people are attracted to massage therapy because of sexual interest and it’s irresponsible and unfair to the people in the industry to represent it that way.

I’m really tired of hearing all about the accomplishments of woman abusers. He’s a creep and a criminal and now he needs to go the fuck away. We aren’t acceptable collateral damage on the way to sainthood - your achievements don’t matter if you’re also a pedophile or domestic abuser or other kind of predator. Sorry…

I’m sorry, I don’t know what you’re referring to. What comparison?

Well, I guess many of the women you share the world with are just not grown up and deserve rape then. That’s definitely a reasonable consequence for not feeling empowered.

Yes, all of us women have. Whether or not we’ve actually been raped, all of us have been pushed by men into situations we’d rather not be in.

Your sources are a documentary title - not produced by a “domme”, urban dictionary, and Wikipedia? I bet you could find some idiots on the internet calling us “trixes” too and that doesn’t mean it’s how we refer to ourselves. And you’re going to add on a sassy “honey” now, as if this is just between us girls? You’re…

You’re the one that said “literally” when you meant... not literally so...

I don’t believe you know any dominant women, and that’s not how we spell it. Your froth and spinning is rather amusing as is your assumption that any woman cares about your opinion. I’m here for the women reading.

Pretty sure you have zero understanding, interest, or perspective on what’s good for women.

Yes - how does that statement relate to “literally just said you will do risky things to men that haven’t been previously agreed upon but won’t do it to women.”? There’s nothing literally stating that at all.

Because women have been socialized to avoid saying no to men, to keep the peace, to not disagree, etc. The same is not true for men. We are equals, yes. And we have been socialized differently, so that women feel really uncomfortable and hesitant to say no and pressured by requests. So if you want to interact…

Source? Maybe you’re reading someone else’s comment?

No matter what someone says to you - this is abusive misogyny. You are revealing yourself right here and you deserve to be banned. I wonder if anyone you know offline would respect you if they knew you spoke to people like this.

No. I’m saying that just as in literally any other situation when you are the person with more power, you need to consider what requests you make, if they are fair, and if the other person is going to feel fully empowered to say no. Have you ever asked someone for a favor and they said yes and then you ask “are you…

You stated you were a man. Not sure how it’s rational to be upset to be assumed to be a man. But I don’t actually think you’re upset about that. I think you’re grasping at straws because you feel like you’re losing something. Best of luck with the internet!

Yes my background gives me an acute understanding. And ignorance is not an excuse. The consequences for violating consent are serious and it’s not ok to go wandering about like a child. If you don’t know how to drive, stay off the road. Consent is a learning curve, but a sure way not to learn is not to try.

Well it was actually that you’ve stated you’re a man in previous comments, but ok. You know, I actually do feel empathy for you. For you to feel that men are at a disadvantage, for you to not even be conscious of the privilege you have means you must have had a lot go wrong for you. The view you have of women is…

Yes. I expect men to understand their privilege and to act in accordance.