He claims to have no idea why I am upset, but I at the time I couldn't deal with speaking to him. He had been drinking, so I suppose there are some people who would excuse his behavior because he "didn't know what he was doing," but I tend to think that if you drink too much and it leads you to crawl into another…

I actually had friends look at me and ask me "what did you expect." And I told them. "I expected my platonic friend who I have never so much as kissed to keep his hand out of my vagina." You could hear crickets after I let that one loose!

I think I'm processing it *decently*, but I have definitely thought about actually finding a group where I can maybe talk to younger women about it. I was 40 when this happened, and have been around the block a million times, but really identifying what happened to me and being able to speak about it at all was truly…

Sloths make everything better! Thanks!

Thanks! I am working to get back to a place where I can be more trusting, but it's a pretty long road! :)

Mine didn't do anything as Adult as trying to stick his tongue down my throat. He waited until I passed out on his spare futon one night and decided to crawl in with me and explore my vagina while I slept.

I would love to see Congresswoman Harmon's reaction to why she was interrupted! I would imagine that she won't be clamoring to appear on MSNBC again any time soon.

And if we want to insult the men of America by making them believe that they are helpless without Uncle Sugar coming in and providing for them a prescription each month for Viagra because they cannot get their dicks up without the help of government then so be it!

I think that about once a decade this becomes a thing. I can remember smoking cigars in the late 80's for the same weird "empowerment."

If one of my thinny thin thin girlfriends tried to have a didactic talk with me about my weight, I would flush her down the toilet.

It is really nice to see somebody doing research on this, because it sucks when it happens to you and you feel so alone like you are the only loser in the world. I tend to be more like a guy in that "no visit...no shame" concept that Foot-In-Mouth mentioned. When doctors shame me, I just stop going. And then I get…

You say that like it is a bad thing???

I have never made a New Year's Resolution before this year. This year, I resolve to stop talking badly about myself and I'm going to stop listening to negative people who tell me that I need to change to "fit in." I think I can do this!

Do we still do COTD around here? Because you, my friend, totally win!

I'm not terribly shocked. I had a friend who wouldn't allow her daughter to go to sleepovers and had never held a sleepover at her house. Her daughter was in 7th grade. I was horrified for this poor middle school girl being denied participation in this time honored ritual!

There are themes that are common across many religions that I think should remain part of our culture. "Love thy neighbor as thyself", "And it harm none, do what thou wilt", etc. But I feel that a lot of "religious" people do not really think about what these things mean to them. They are repeated so often that…

That is so awesome! My granddaughter watches both Sofia and Jake & the Pirates. She isn't old enough to know the words (20 months), but she gets so excited even when the commercials come on!

Princess Sofia is the newest TV Disney Princess (Disney Channel). Best part of the show? Tim Gunn does the voice of the butler. I was putzing around the house one day and heard his voice and had to look around because I couldn't figure out why he would be on the tv. It was my granddaughter's cartoon! I had to…

I will totally watch this with my granddaughter. Unfortunately, since it isn't Princess Sofia, she will have no idea who any of these people are, but I don't care. Gramma is EXCITED~!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel you. When some guy