Thank you! If we aren't allowed to share our perspectives on things and how they relate to us, then what the fuck are we doing here? That's exactly how I relate to articles and comments (see, I'm doing it again!) Jesus, WTF today?

Wait. So a man wanting it to be acknowledged that abuse can go both ways makes him an MRA? I will be sure to tell my friend who's girlfriend used to beat him silly and throw shit at him that it wasn't abuse. Just for clarification, what term do I tell him to use to describe that behavior??

Seriously? I see the OP post ALL THE TIME and have never gotten the slightest MRA feel from him.

I live in CA and I know EXACTLY what they are talking about! Places like California Pizza Kitchen, Sammi's Woodfired Pizza and a lot of other places with hip "California" cuisine serve "pizzas" that are bread with some stuff on it. Half the time the things don't even have cheese on them! In my opinion, you cannot…

Thanks for sharing that! I was in an emotionally abusive relationship when I was younger, and somehow I am the go-to person in my group when they are worried about other people in abusive relationships. Because I do get it, and they don't.

I have a friend that this would be perfect for, and sadly I don't think that she would use it. :(

I got in a HUGE argument about this with my last roommates! I told my male roommate (I'm female) that I am more concerned about the house being locked when I am in it because I don't want to deal with home invasion. I lived in a mostly white super suburban part of San Diego. Doesn't matter, break ins still happen! …

I'm pretty thick skinned, but that just made me cringe. I feel dirty just from having read about this asshole.

I'm doing this dance around my office right now! And singing "The Coo-ooch Lo-oost!" My all male coworkers (in California) have no idea what I am celebrating...

I couldn't agree more! I have never had a male OB/GYN tell me "that doesn't hurt" and yet I have heard it from 2 separate female OB/GYN. Like, I understand that might not hurt YOU, but it hurts ME! Gah!

I was reading this and getting one hell of a laugh. I'm not exactly a baby boomer (40), and I was really excited about this! I'm over worrying about babies, but still rely on condoms because of STDs. And yet, I have a really hard time with the condom blow job, because I'm stupid (lazy and entitled?) and don't buy…

Bartending FTW! It works wonders! And you are totally right, if you have wit and you're smart with a confident attitude then that makes you attractive!

See, I'd totally hit on him!

I'm aging kicking and screaming, so thank you! And GREAT screename!

Thank you Penny! That is exactly how I read it too! I'm 40 chasing around hot ass 30 year old guys and I totally succeed. The letter writer should totally support her friend trying to hit it!

I really think that these boys believe "I took her home, so it can't be rape." I think this goes back to educating our kids about consent. As nauseating as it is, I think that these boys probably thought that the only thing wrong with their actions was the videotaping.

Oh, I don't care if he's bi. Totally doesn't make a difference to me. Now, I am a little bummed if he that he is discovering he is fully gay, because as I said he was GOOOOOOORGEOUS! So, yeah, would have liked to at least have had some fun first! I have a weakness for hot boys.

Seriously? That is completely insane!

I think this exact thing is happening to me right now! Met a guy on OKC, absolutely ridiculously gorgeous. After talking for about 2 weeks, he lets me know that he recently had his first bi experience. The more we talk, the more he talks about wanting to have threesomes with guys. I am expecting this to end any…

After the embarrassment that San Diego went through with Filner, I'm glad at least my STATE can get something right!!! So happy to be raising my family here!