I signed up just so I could tell you what an awesome response that was. Best troll owning I can recall seeing.

I didn’t spend $25 at the diploma mill to be Mister NerdLove, thank you very much.

but that’s what close friends are for - you trust them and their opinions, and they know you enough to give accurate assessments. Yes, you have to have a good enough relationship with them for them to be BRUTALLY HONEST, and they have to trust that you won’t hold that information against them.

It’s true that sometimes, people in general don’t know what they want. But when it comes to women’s “indecision” - there’s usually a reason - we’re worried our decision will hurt/offend someone.

And all too often, you can't find the exact words. It just doesn't "click".

See my point? So defensive and aggressive it doesn’t even make sense anymore. Are you that averse at... you know... taking things as they are?

I think your reaction to your opinion being rejected here is more telling. The fact that you can’t seem to let it go despite the fact that more than one person explained the rationale behind it is more telling. It’s all the more reason that with certain people, giving ANY reason would not be enough. Don’t be that kind…

Nobody owes you shit, dude.

You’re comparing getting rejected for a date with a failed drivers test? It’s up to YOU to figure out why women don’t want to date you. They don’t owe you an explanation. The fact that you think you are owed one should be the biggest indicator why someone wouldn’t want to date you. You sound entitled as hell. Like…

Based on your comments here I am guessing you are getting rejected might have something to do with your personality.

Do you realize how literally dangerous it can be to tell some men the real reason why?

If someone breaks up with you after a year-long relationship, sure it would be nice of them to say what isn’t working. But if you’re talking about how you got “rejected” when you asked someone out...this person doesn’t owe you a damn thing.

If you’re calling people assholes because they don’t give a reason why they won’t go out with you, I can think of at least one right now.

Why? So you can counter it?

Yep - this is what happened to me the few times I did give a reason for not being interested. It gave him a chance to keep talking about how he could change into what I wanted, or why I should change what I like and want.

Once I finally got to walk away (usually with the words, “You’re a bitch, anyway” ringing in my…

“Because I said NO.” should be reason enough.

And suddenly I think we all know why she said that...

I once POLITELY replied to a dude on Okcupid that I’m not interested because he had a kid and I’m not looking to date someone who’s a parent. He started debating, wouldn’t let go and it got ugly.

If someone is able to give you a reason, lucky you. Use this information and Godspeed.

Smart move on her part.