Look, I do how I do KNOWING I can’t please everyone. I’m far from rich, but I celebrate rarely and well. So, if you come to one of my gatherings, either I am covering everything or I have notified you well in advance that your contribution will be needed and what it is. (Contributions usually mean a trip OOT, not…

Actually, no one owes you either! You aren’t owed sex or sexual history.

This is a beautiful post that everyone should read!

Well, I think it was a plea bargain, so the judge may have been following the DAs sentence recommendation. But I know people have been put on death row with severe intellectual disabilities. Our “justice” system makes no sense.

You got me. I think this shit should be a capital crime.

Wendy Williams has always been trash. That said, some of her comments aren’t incorrect. As far back as I can remember, some of our top Black male entertainers have been abusive MFers & NO ONE BATTED AN EYE.

I was classified as legally blind as a child. There is significant difference between legally blind and say partially blind. Legally blind means he can’t drive, or be a pilot. His distance vision sucks & he may need assistance with near vision, but he can see. He can read print. Additionally, being classified as…

You have to do what is right for you. I just had to take a good look at things because my sex life isn’t a clinical trial or research, it is joyful exploration. As long as I kept focusing on what wasn’t happening, I was missing what was. It was counterproductive for me.

I’m cool. If it shows up one day, fine. If it doesn’t, whatevs. I’m not searching for what isn’t really needed or lacking.

Haha! I am used to it! I’m 43 and I have tried, many, many ways of pleasure. I’m sure I’ll try more, but not in search of an orgasm. Sex for me is really about the journey & connection. I don’t feel like I’m missing out on something important.

I’m an anxious person, but THC is not my friend. Might look into something that doesn’t have that for various reasons. Never heard of cannalube- thanks!

Lol, I’m not self-conscious during sex. I’m a freak, just a freak who doesn’t orgasm. (shrug)

I could see the point if I didn’t enjoy sex, but I do. There is nothing to be gained from looking at my body as broken & in need of fixing.

Eh, I don’t orgasm, as in never. Not ever. I love sex & have a fairly high drive, but no big “O” for me. Doesn’t bother me anymore. Of course I tried to find my orgasm when I was younger, but the search actually reduced my enjoyment. I called off the search! They certainly can be elusive for some of us.

Well, I’m a woman and while I don’t tend to feature sexual violence, there is violence against men & women. I don’t think I would specifically try to change that to win a prize. Actually, I’m sure I wouldn’t. The story comes first.

Ok, for all the confused “I’m not homophobic or biphobic, it is just a preference!” bishes in the room.

It got ugly in here real quick, but I have a few questions.

I think the macho bullshit is only part of the problem. I’m a bisexual female who has always identified that way and I don’t know how many times I’ve had problems dating someone new because they questioned whether or not they would be “enough”.

Then close your mouth & reread my comment. I am a survivor of rape. More than 1. I am a woman.

Nothing in my comment sounds morally superior, don’t project that on me. My experiences have lead me to a difference in opinion and approach to others. Do I not have that option? Should I just shut up and not be a part of the conversation, let me know.