What if it's just part of his physical description? I see the sentence as having four separate parts: not a creep, also clean, also attractive, also Causasian. Not that he's presenting his non-creep bona fides by saying he's white so therefore less likely to be a creep.

In this case, it's probably just a physical description. He's Canadian: racial politics exist here but are FAR less charged than south of the border.

Unless he's describing himself as not a creep, also attractive, also clean, and also Caucasian: four separate things. This is one time when the Oxford comma, majestic though it is, is not clarifying his intent.

That depends on where you live. A stroll through your comment history suggests you and I reside in different countries. Said stroll also seems to suggest you're a bit of a troll in general, which I knew when I first responded to you... my bad, I know. That's why it's not surprising that someone with a username like…

What an excellent (and admirably non-gendered) insult. Well played.

No, I say it's a position that *is* well compensated. A cursory Google suggests the house manager/butler category is salaried between $70,000 and $120,000. And I see you've never actually paid someone to clean your dwelling, or you'd know it's not minimum wage.

I know a girl who got a guy off PoF for her birthday present ("I have just the sausage you're looking for") and they ended up getting married. Wait, you probably didn't need to hear that last part... anyway, just, PoF can work for some. Got another friend who has TWO profiles in the Casuals section: one is Nice Girl,…

I feel so, so bad for her. But you've got time still! Good luck, sista.

Oh, sweetie. Be good to yourself! Also, ice cream. And talking to all your friends. I left a marriage in the summer, aided by my boyfriend of just over three years (it was an open marriage; my husband essentially chose his girlfriend over me) and said boyfriend was a damn rock when it came to being supportive. The…

You might try okcupid, Plenty Of Fish (they have a Casual Encounters section) or even Fetlife: it's like facebook, but for kinky people. If you're so inclined, that is.

I'm so sorry. Never wanted children myself and married someone who felt the same way, so our recent separation was that much easier: only shared custody on our pet birdies. But I have two friends... one married at 30 to someone who promised kids someday, but it was never time, and now she's 40 and bitter as hell. He…

Beautiful photos, thanks for taking the time to share them.

Guh, you're probably right. She gets perqs for longevity. Not to mention she produced a child ("Barron"- sigh) which means she's set for life no matter what. Lordy, I feel like a hardened old cynic discussing a Slovenian model married to a blowhard with a comb-over that resembles a large golden weasel.

We have the same approach, then- I was unfailingly polite and expressed myself well, that whole stupid weekend when I was defending myself against attack after misquoted attack. And that meant some of the dogpilers were mocking me for "having to have the last word" when in fact, all I wanted to do was point out that…

Truth.

Can you expand on that thought? A pre-nup means the wife is protected and gets something? A pre-nup means the husband is protected and gives nothing?

Well, thank YOU! :-)

And they're still together years later, so that's something too. I guess?

Lord, that's right. No retirement! Damn right this is a "contribution"...

It may be urban legend, but I heard about one okc dudebro whose entire profile was three words: "I'm a doctor." WOW take me in your ARMS, you smooth-talkin' charmer! Except not.