Remember when the nice teacher said, “There is no such thing as a stupid question” ? She was wrong. It is stupid to ask questions about semantics when people are discussing moral issues.

Right?! Let’s throw a couple of calf presses into the mix there, DJ.

Someone has been missing ALL the leg days.

I really have no idea why so many A-listers continue to work with Allen. I c

That jumped out at me as well.

What the hell is the matter with you that you’re trying to scrounge up some kind of loophole for this guy so that he scores a little higher on the Complete Shit of a Human Being scale?

Does it matter? It’s gross either way.

I think he had clearly decided she was gay. So his knowledge wasn’t based on her admission of the fact, but he definitely believed she was gay when he said it.

It was also a homophobic comment, even if he didn’t know she was lesbian. So there’s that.

I honestly don’t see why it matters, but ok.

And Paquin was probably afraid of being outed too.

Anybody who thinks running a restaurant is an easy life has clearly never been in one as anything other than a customer. Food service is among the most time-suckingly brutal of industries. You’re never away from the job.

TERFy as fuuuuuuuuuuck.

I don’t believe I was. I’m mostly just probing the breadth and depth of your bigotry. And, of course, proving the truth of my original assertion: you’re a dipshit.

There we go. Couldn’t you have just said at the start that you’re a transphobe? It would have saved us all a lot of time.

Yeah, I’m definitely getting that vibe too. Like, it sucks that she experienced this trauma, but now using that as leverage to hurt other folks is really, deeply shitty. Being traumatized or damaged does not give us the right to traumatize or damage others.

But we’re talking about gender neutral changing rooms here. Maybe I meant that you’re trying to catch a glimpse of a teenage boy. The fact that you framed it as girls changing next to men in the first place is kind of telling.

That is dreadful. However, as you point out, it is quite normal for men to walk into changing rooms with their wives. I would suggest that rather than discriminate against trans people, a better solution would be for stores to install better doors.

Walp, since the OP is deleting my response, let’s put it here:

It’s weird this is even an issue. I can’t really think of a store I’ve been to that has gender segregated changerooms in the first place... sometimes, like in a huge department store with separate areas for men and women’s clothes, I think it’s presumed that you’ll use the one in the area you’re shopping in, but even…