solarina
daughter of the eternal sun
solarina

Please indulge me/tell me that Debra Messing is the one that will come out in the negative. When Parks and Rec hit it’s peak, I was a depressed grad student in INDIANA studying Library Sciences of all things, in the town where Upland Beer is brewed (what they often drink on the show). So Mullally as an evil librarian

Good Place Adam Scott is also deviously delightful. 

Ben’s a little too sunny Adam Scott is pretty great playing a shade or two darker than that.

This has always been my favorite Adam Scott role. Even more so that Parks and Rec Adam Scott

It really depends on your birth, the size of your cervix, did you tear, and a myriad of other things. But sex is soooo mental! Even before having a baby, if I was not in that frame of mind, it could be borderline uncomfortable to painful. Don’t let it scare you, but make sure you are VERY clear with your partner that

Having sex post baby IS a minefield. When you are breastfeeding your body is basically in menopause and honestly I am/was so over touched/stimulated, sex is often not even on the table. Over a YEAR after having my daughter I am just warming up to sex as pleasurable-because let’s be real-it has been a chore!

Can we address Darlene Superville for a minute?

*A Song for You [we don’t capitalize prepositions]

Watchung is a very white and republican town. I live in NJ and it’s what my friends and I call the NJ undercover racism. In the 2012 presidential election, Romney received 57.9% of the vote Obama received 41.1%. This kind of crap happening in this town does not surprise me.

And consequences training as well. If these little shits have no consequences, they won’t learn.

You know how therapists and advice columnists tell people to say, “You’re hurting me. You’re causing me pain. Why are you offending me by saying terrible things to me?” in the hopes that the other person will understand their actions and stop? My sister will always say, “I’m telling you X because I want to hurt you.

Maybe diversity training should just be a part of the curriculum every fucking year and like all year long instead of just a reaction to a problem.  Clearly the ignorance training is ongoing so we must thwart it with equally ongoing diversity training. 

So, like, this was your main take-away from this?

My mom tried to tell me that she’d know if I had sex so never bother having it when I was living under her roof. When I did lose my virginity, she was so engrossed in an episode of 20/20 that she never looked up from the TV. So much for that scare tactic. She clearly thought I was an idiot.

I have a friend whose Ex told their kids he doesn’t have to pay child support if they’re having sex.  Luckily the kids are jaded enough to not let anything he says effect them.

There still are those “purity ceremonies” that are basically weddings to your dad for 14 year old girls where they pledge not to have sex until they’re married, usually to a husband that the dad needs to approve of.

Same.  Watching videos isn’t as easy as checking articles for me during my workday.  Stuff like this, I usually check comments for clues and then move on.  I never wind up going back to watch the video.

As Darklighter said below, this is/has been child abuse. He also congratulates his teenage sons on their sexual conquests.

This.  I want to read because I read faster than I have to listen.  I want to skip the intro, and get to the list where you number them with a title for each, so i can either extrapolate from the title and skip to the next point, or it interests me enough to read more about it.  Instead, I have to listen to a guy talk

Nope.