I think that point is more relevant in the frame of combating rape culture, rather than stopping rape itself. In essence, rape would be significantly reduced if we undermined the culture that enables rapists, even if they continued engaging in the same behaviors. And when others observe the rapist engaging in iffy…

That's a good one. I think a lot of guys simply don't see women as equal human beings, they see them as attainable objects, or rather see women as what they can do for themselves with said woman. The causes and solutions to this shit are myriad, probably, but I just can't grasp some of the motivations.

Action on drunk driving has reduced it though, and reduced fatalities. Making it socially unacceptable and disgusting has helped. So have the laws.

I wish it was a Chevette.

That's exactly what he raps about. Resentful that he's still a little guy and dorky (reasons he thinks he didn't get girls in high school and college) but now that he's on TV and raps he has a different girl every night if he wants, dates models, etc. He's very honest in his music about not treating most of the women…

So as a white person married to another white person I should probably NOT attempt to dress my son up as Baby Mike Tomlin for Halloween, right?

Fran Drescher is and always was ridiculously gorgeous. She's the best reason to sit through the weirdness that is Doctor Detroit.

normally I hate typo humor, but this made me chortle.

Agreed. If he's ok with the OP's asexuality, then good for them. But as someone who lives in this type of situation, I really cannot imagine that the non-asexual partner is happy with this set up. At all. Sure, you do what you can and you try not to say anything because you don't want to fight, but inside you're not…

What we lacked was physical affection that didn't always lead to sex. Which meant that our physical affection had dwindled down to once or twice a week. Which really put me off towards my husband.

When this started happening in my relationship prior to marriage, I first did some introspection. I had to determine why I wasn't wanting sex as often as I used to.

This is interesting to me on a personal level, because I sometimes have sex with my husband because I want him to know how much I love and desire him. His previous marriage became sexless, and it was emotionally crippling for him. We prioritize sex partly because I want him to feel very sexually secure in our…

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I thought America was the land of individualism.

First, I think you're underestimating the importance of physical appearance for guys. It may be less important from a career perspective, but numerous threads on these boards will attest to the importance of looks when it comes to attracting a sexual partner/mate.

So, 77 percent marry the partner of someone else?

23% have met a spouse or long term partner through these sites

I was better in school than my younger brother and am smarter than him in an academic sense, but he has actual people skills and lacks my crippling fear of failure. Since we finished college he has been way more successful than me.

Did anyone else read this as Leonardo dicaprio?
No? Just me, then.