Agreed. I got a bath bomb once that scared my kids. It was filled with seaweed and when it went off the kids jumped out of the tub like cats, freaking right the ruck out. Plus, it smelled horrendous.

I hate Lush. Every time I walk past a shop the cloying stench pouring out makes me gag. And without fail, every year, someone gifts me with something from there at the holidays. I need to make my views more known in my circle, I think.

It’s always the question: which came first? Her crazy or his cheating? I knew a woman a few years ago whom I thought was a total and absolute bitch. I found out later that she had been in the early stages of a pregnancy at the time, discovered her husband was screwing some young woman at the office and she ended up…

She’s burying herself in order to hold the marriage together, which is making her grumpy as fuck. It’s also known as the pick me dance, and the harder you dance the more exhausted you get. She needs to dump his ass and let him get on with whatever it is he wants.

I don’t see people saying there is a ‘right kind of relationship’. I see people saying ‘Don’t be a lying, sneaky, cheating asshole who is making unilateral decisions about someone else’s life’.

Two things: if she’s so crazy and controlling then deal with the problem or divorce. Imagine how much more crazy and controlling she’ll allegedly be now that she knows he’s a cheater? Also, maybe her hinky meter was going off and that is what made her crazy and controlling. Who knows. But no one forces anyone else to…

In the first episode of the season, Shannon revealed that David had an affair for close to a year. Watching them on the previous season, the two quite clearly had other issues, which one can only imagine were compounded by David’s infidelity.

Oh, how very edgy.

Wait until they have to ask for an STD panel after a decade or two of supposedly monogamous marriage and then we’ll see if they’re screaming ‘hater’ or giving people shit for being judgy. Hell yes I judge cheaters. Don’t put my health at risk, don’t hurt me and my kids, and don’t fuck with my financial well-being. All…

Oh dear. The vapid blonde model one from RHONYC’s douchebro husband was on AM for three years, starting when she was pregnant with her second child. He spent a lot of money on there but of course now says ‘It was a mistake’. Whoopsie! Who wants to bet he finds a way to blame her?

Funny thing is that quite a few people I know who divorced due to cheating (not all, mind you) said that sure, the marriage wasn’t at its greatest point but that the cheater decided to go out and cheat instead of talking to their spouse. And if they had had a talk, decided that whatever problems there were couldn’t be…

Not at the moment but since he’s obviously looking for a new one my guess is that any effort he might have been putting into his marriage is instead being put into finding some new side action. What a prize.

Exactly. There are two people in the relationship and they both have the right to have a say in how it goes. Him taking that away from her is incredibly selfish.

So the consequences of stating what you wanted were not to your liking so the result is that you prefer to lie and cheat? Your ex didn’t fuck up your life. She walked when the terms you presented were not acceptable. That’s her choice and you have no right to get pissed because she wasn’t onboard with your desires. I…

And that is the crux of the argument. He’s making unilateral decisions and she is in the dark. She has a right to know what is going on in her own life and the ability to then make decisions based on full information. Anything less and he’s robbing her.

I think the best thing that could happen is that she become aware of who she’s really married to, splits and gets on with her life, which will be much better than being with someone who lies to her face and exposes her to disease. Right now I’m guessing she knows something is off but can’t quite figure it out and is,…

We have to remember that it’s him saying she’s not into sex. There is always the chance that she’s into it but he’s not giving it or he’s going through the motions and the result is that she’s all ‘meh’ when he was fucky times. People who cheat are sometimes known to say ‘My wife/husband isn’t into sex anymore’…

I think a lot of people think it’s going to be all sunshine and unicorns and if it’s not then something ‘must be wrong’. They don’t seem to take into account the normal ups and downs of life which put stress on a relationship and that working through those times does mean the sunshine and unicorns appear (usually)…

I fear this is my kids’ future as far as their father in concerned. He is now with one of his side pieces but the cracks are starting to show: he’s pulling the same shit he pulled on me, i.e. passive aggressive nonsense designed to make you a bit nuts while still throwing some sparkles here and there to keep her on…

If you’re in a relationship where monogamy is what you agreed upon and one person is unilaterally deciding to not be monogamous then there is a real problem. Divorce isn’t easy but sometimes it’s necessary or the best option .I’m a grown assed person who divorced due to infidelity and while it’s been one fucking…