I’m part Tohono O’odham and I married into a Tohono O’odham family. The border has bisected our traditional homelands since 1848, as well as other border tribes-the Lipan Apache, Yoeme (Yaquí), Kickapoo and I believe also the Tuscarora tribes. For the first few decades after the 1848 Treaty of Guadalupe Hidalgo, most…

Well, back at you, because the first time I’ve been to the US I was fascinated (my first international trip). And I know Americans will laugh at this, but on the food, I was blown away by...

if you give me an idea of your field and where you are located i would be privileged to try and promote you. I would like to help if I can.

The politics stuff, I guess just keep reiterating that you don’t want to hear it.

Your comment really resonates with me— thank you for taking the time to write it. My mother is likewise conservative and she was abused in her childhood. I think you are right that she is genuinely clueless, which is why I do not want to cut her out. I am still struggling on how to bring up issues with her when she…

Everyone here has had very good things to say. I can only add: I don’t know your mother, but it also sounds like she might make bad decisions herself, and/or be invested in some things (like traditional gender roles/toxic masculinity) that she doesn’t think of as damaging, let alone damaging to you. Responding like…

My father isn’t ‘difficult,’ but sometimes talking with him can be difficult. So, what I do (& my siblings do this too) is I set expectations FOR MYSELF. I ‘allow’ him a certain amount of time to be ‘like Dad.’ When we’re approaching five minutes to the end of that time, I start extricating myself from the…

Good luck to them. They have a lot at steak.

I guy I had been casually seeing once texted me a picture of another man’s junk and asked “Do you want some of me?” I texted back asking why he was sending me pictures of another man’s more impressive dick. I didn’t hear anything back from him after that. 

I know! And not everyone has a cousin Kevin. Like does this “journalist” think that we all just go around talking to “cousin Kevins”? WTF! The Kevin I’m related to is my uncle, not my cousin, and uncle Kevin is a farmer, not an accountant. Some people aren’t even related to a Kevin at all. Some people don’t even have…

We had sleep overs.  I watched The Terminator with my friends and rolled down stairs in sleeping bags.  

My balls aren’t even that big...

Is it just me, or does he have a serious problem coming off as authentic? I never really got into the whole “Kevin Hart is a brilliant comedian!” thing so many I’m an outlier, but every time he talks it strikes me as fake. Like he’s acting, trying to tell you what you want to hear, and poorly at that.

Nearing 50 and I wouldn’t be interested him anyway. In fact, after 18 years of marriage, if I were to divorce and be single again I wouldn’t be interested in ANY man. I would be far more interested in doing whatever the hell I wanted to do, answering to no one, and most importantly, only taking care of myself. If I…

And Vitamin E. coli!

In the world.

I teared up a bunch of times when the survivors talked about what he’d done to them - getting choked, slapped, starved, having to piss and shit in buckets, the sexual abuse/domination ... The one who said she was in the hospital for two weeks with mono and almost died and he was nowhere around but sent her mother a…

Liz Mair is having a bad day, wonder how Liz Phair’s day is going?

Lindsay Lohan.

I can’t wait to someday self-destruct and decide to “tweet through it.” What will it be over? Nobody knows! But it’s exciting to contemplate.