Sure, here is all the guidance you need:

C’mon, your post wasn’t limited to an expression of concern for another person’s mental health, it went beyond that by assuming she isn’t getting help now if this is happening and asserting that getting help, if one works hard enough, “works.” No one is criticizing you for the “Jeez, I hope she’s okay” part of your…

You are being really super aggressive about this. You really REALLY dislike being corrected.

I’m relatively certain I lost years of my life that I wouldn’t have had I not been deemed “sick.” I don’t care to dwell anymore, but I was very angry for a long time and still have a very low opinion of the mental health profession. I believe they’ve helped others but they’re not getting their paws on me again.

I also really feel like her using the word “staging” when referring to suicide attempts makes it seems like it is for attention. The comment about “anger issues” is also very mean-spirited and super aggressive. Someone correcting someone else isn’t about anger issues. It is about education.

When a commenter could think about it for five seconds and avoid phrasing their comment in a way that makes mentally ill people feel shitty about themselves, they aren’t immune from criticism just because they meant well.

And the “it works” is also condescending because no, it doesn’t for everyone,...

Uhh saying she should seek professional help suggests that these things only happen with people who aren’t getting help. That’s pretty condescending to the tons of people who have attempted suicide/run off/had episodes/disassociated/etc. while getting help/treatment. And the “it works” is also condescending because…

Jesus Christ this is a condescending post. Sinead O’Conner has had 20 years of professional help. For many people mental illness is a life sentence. So your assertion that “it works” is both a lie and a slap in the face to people who aren’t going to ever permanently recover.

“Ok. I do keep quiet on this every time it pops up on Jez, but... there is no proof he did anything.”

Several judges thought there was enough evidence to remove all custody and to publicly state that he was a danger to his children.

It shouldn’t have to get to Cosby levels before we can call someone out on their bullshit. My point is that one is already too many. I respect that people who are pedophiles are mentally ill and they need treatment and it should be easier for them to admit that and get help before they harm anyone without fear of…

You know what it takes to be a pedophile? A predilection for children. It only takes one, and that one that has come forward is Dylan, whom you have shit all over because she wasn’t the perfect child victim that apparently meets your narrow definition of victimhood.

The essay was written recently and I don’t know why you continue with this screed. It takes years for molestation survivors to process what happened to them because people still don’t believe that others have been molested/assaulted/raped. Knock it off.

Really hasn’t done that much? One child is already too many. You clearly understand fuck all about the pathology of child abuse and inappropriate relationships within families. He raped one daughter, and groomed another for a sexual relationship for who knows how long before she was of legal age. His movies are…

What evidence would you like? He didn't film himself touching his daughter, but numerous people witnessed him acting inappropriately with her. In your eyes there needs to be semen inside her or it didn't happen? People like you are why so many people do not report assault or molestation.

This is completely incorrect. The prosecutor in the case stated that there was probable cause to go ahead with charges, but Dylan was so fragile that he didn’t want to pursue them. Woody spent millions of dollars pursing his allegations that Dylan had been coached and he lost every time. This information is public…

I sewed new pants and they turned out pretty well - natural linen harem pants for a solid wardrobe building piece. Also, my smart thermostat from last week is still working!

I bragged on another post, but I will brag here too.

You make a good point. I can definitely understand the nervous giggle, and the so-awful-it’s-funny giggle. I remember when I had a pretty brutal miscarriage, looking at my ultrasound and saying “stupid baby..” because it somehow made me feel better to be so irreverent about it.