You’re welcome. I know I couldn’t ever personally do what you’re thinking of doing (mostly because I have an obsessive personality when it comes to people I like/love and I’m not able to emotionally distance myself even for casual sex), but if I were in your position, I’d want all the facts. IDs, verbal and written…

And that’s fine that you want to push the debate. Hell, I’d do the same if only to get a better answer than “because it’s wrong!” moral shut-downs. But the main concern is that there are so many different ways this can fuck you over, even knowing the wife and knowing what the husband’s objectives are, that there’s a…

I don’t believe in anything that means that your life was preordained at birth, really. (My fiancee does, but she’s more fatalistic and superstitious than I am and very much a capital-R Romantic, so I let it slide.) Ultimately, I think that “only one person meant for you” sounds depressing as hell. I like believing,…

he talks about her all the time in a totally loving and caring way, and they still have sex pretty consistently

Also forgot to add a key point of distinction here: he may be putting in more time, but is he as emotionally invested in this as you are, or is this akin to pressing buttons on a vending machine? You can be an active participant in something and not have any emotional energy spent. See: having sex without being in…

Thing is, it’s hard to say right now, because from what I’m getting, this is kind of just the initial phase, yeah? It very well could be him trying to sweeten the pot and/or win you over; what happens when he realizes that he’s hooked you, and that he doesn’t need to put in that effort to get you to stay any more? Him…

There’s kind of some differences between that situation and this one that OP’s looking to get into, though. Mutual reciprocation, equality, and trust. I don’t think that any of those are in OP’s situation at all. Poly relationships are great, don’t get me wrong! As long as there’s no powerplay or manipulation…

My first impression of all of this is “this sounds like a bad romance novel about an affair from the other woman’s side”. Those don’t ever make for happy stories, man. Married men are not safer choices, even when they lay down the “no strings attached” card. Please rethink this, because you’re already putting in…

Ahahah no I meant like “leprechaun at the end of the rainbow with the pot of gold”. because rainbows. (I’m a poor caffeine-deprived American don’t shoot)

yeah SoBe was kinda gross but this shit here? The “rain” and “fire” flavors were my JAM.

Yooooo if they’re going to bring back retro drinks I want these back:

Yessssss, 10 year old me loved me some peach/blackberry Clearly Canadian. I hope it tastes better than I remember!

Water for now since I’m at work, Angry Orchard hard cider by the bottle when I’m home later.

Clearly Canadian’s new flavor “Retro Disappointment”

Yeah, man, I don’t blame you for that, dating sucks (at least for me, but that’s probably got something to do with me being totally fucking lazy and a little abrasively honest, so.) And thank you! I know she’ll get here soon enough (that is if I don’t just say “fuck it” and try to get my ass to Ireland instead)

Adding my name to the “ain’t got laid in a while and okay with it” pile. Mostly just because I’m engaged to my German fiancee who’s in Ireland trying to work up the corporate ladder to get to here in the US. It’s been a few months, man. (I’ve had 2-year long droughts of sexual activity before and it didn’t bother me…

This one is estimated to be around 2 meters, or 6-foot-5 ,which is—you guessed it—the same height as The Rock.

Yoooo what I wanna know is did they use the leprechaun defense in this PR, because if they didn’t that was such a waste! Irish Jezzies, confirm or deny?

not gonna lie, I would lurk the shit outta a sarcastic mommy sub-kinja (I’m saying you should fund it, really)

Like people keep telling me when I say that I don’t really want kids and ain’t that crazy about them, it’s different when they’re your own kids apparently