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Sry I missed it. I just get wound up so tight on this idea that having children is always a choice that gets made in a country like this where we don’t do anything in terms of properly educating people in human sexuality/reproduction and stigmatize/legislate/restrict the options that we don’t actually tell people

It isn't always a choice, especially given this country access to birth control and family planning. My first child made it through depo. I couldnt afford to terminate. My second I was on birth control. I had my tubes tied with him, I got pregnant 8 years later. I had the resources to terminate at that time. I never

And none of this touches on what happens when you have a special needs child....

How in the actual fuck do people like that sleep at night? 

Can we talk about the term “sexual marketplace value?” Do they actually believe that’s something actual women generally give a fuck about? Like, I’m so grossed out right now, I feel like I need a shower. And I just took one. 

if it helps, I made myself sick to my stomach reading it. <3 ugh. i’m bi. why can’t i just cut the peen habit? like, I’m starting to feel like the people who used to say that women are sleeping with the enemy when they sleep with men are right bc of shit like this.

Soak your head? Holy shit, grandpa??? You’re alive?

I feel like this should have way more stars. 

I drank one on accident because I needed to take medicine and grabbed the manperson’s drink instead. I didn’t want to waste the pill...bc holy shit those things are high dollar when you don’t have insurance, so I choked it down. But it was gross to the point of traumatizing. It tasted like when a fast food

I don’t know a single smoker that doesn’t know that they are bad for you. I also don’t know a single smoker who is doing that so they can live forever. 

It’s unpopular because it’s completely ignorant and void of actual human compassion or understanding. 

Because before they actually hit you they spend a good amount of time gaslighting you so that you trust their perception more than your own, they then progress to nitpicking you. And because you trust them more than you trust yourself, you start seeing yourself as unworthy of them and deserving of their “correction.”

My grandmother used to tell my mom that if she wouldn’t smartmouth my biological father, he wouldn’t break her bones. 

Jesus. Christ. I know you probably know this already, but I am going to tell you anyway because I think that we all need to hear it: you are far from worthless and I am so sorry that the man who helped create you was a monster. Thank you for sharing your story, I know for me it is always this mixed bag of catharsis

Same. Although, I don’t think my county in Texas is super red, it is dominated by the oil industry and I work within it, and people always assume that because you are the person dealing with Halliburton that you support them politically. 

I’m a woman, but I do get tired of being assumed to be in the white people club. It’s always fun when after the conspiratorial whispers about “them,” I break out with my phone to show them pictures of my beautiful, half AA children. The look on their faces is almost worth the pain and suffering that my knowing what

But this wasn’t about thoughts in someone’s head. He broke her face in front of their two children and left her on the side of the road. I get what you are saying here, but that’s not what this is. People should know by now, that incidents of this severity are not isolated and there is no way that this was his first

My maternal grandmother watched as my biological father kicked her 17 year old, 8 months pregnant daughter down the stairs. She watched as this man bullied my mother, both psychologically and physically. She cooked this man dinner when he came downstairs after just finishing up brutally raping my mother (her nose got