When you get pulled over, have your music off and the window down and your hands on the wheel (in plain sight) before the officer approaches your window. And when you reach for your documents whether it’s in the glove compartment or in the visor or under a seat, alert the cop as to what you’re doing.

I feel like his well meaning tone is the equivalent of a women’s magazine calling a woman who doesn’t fit model standards “brave” for showing or “flaunting her body in a bikini. But, anytime we get to see more acceptance of what most women’s bodies look like I’m totally here for that. He is right-on about both women…

Biggest crush on both him and his TV brother.

Here’s the thing about takeout. Certain restaurants have a model of placing a server at the takeout station during busy hours for their entire shift. So when I was placed there once or twice a week, I was still paid at a rate of $2.13 per hour. My entire shift was comprised of taking, logging, expediting, packaging,…

Did you know unlit candles displayed in a home are considered bad luck? That has always stuck with me for some reason.

You read my mind. I kept asking myself “so?”

This. I was trying to advise a childless girlfriend going through a massive marriage meltdown to come spend some weeks at my place to get away from her emotionally erratic/jealous spouse. They were both just pretty shitty to one another. But then a coworker of both of ours mentioned something about not vacating a…

Eh, she has stated that she was constantly made to feel ugly and different in HS. If that’s true I can see why she might be so thirsty now... Let’s be clear, I honestly cannot stand the woman. Reason being she seems to rely heavily on her connection to Monteith and the resulting grief when he passed. It’s something…

How does this effect relocated immigrant families going forward? Did anyone else follow the series NPR did on a Syrian family placed in the states, with the help of a local church that sets up a program to assimilate refugees? One of the questions the father and mother had asked their hosts was whether or not they…

Eh. As a massage therapist, one of my rotations was studying under a legitimately gifted and practical therapist who has been in business for 30 years, whom uses a table with a full crystal base under the cushion. Amethyst. It’s a thing. I’ve never read any peer reviewed studies on it. Just like I’ve never checked up…

Growing up in Ft Lauderdale Florida in the 80's, I was in the Environmentalist Club. And somewhere along the line I came across a poster that said something like “When the last environmentalist leaves Plantation, please take the trees with you”. Meaning, oh God please don’t leave the vulnerable to the wolves. I look…

I’m OK with this. And I hate Trump with the passion of a thousand suns. But after listening to a piece on NPR today I kind of get it... An American teacher educating military children in Sicily spoke about how he had organized a field trip prior to the election results for the children in service whose parents were in…

I see your Golden Girls and I raise you Designing Women.

Ohh, sweet thing. Trust me, indulging in nostalgia is not the invention of 60 year olds.

God fucking dammit I came here to say the same thing. I’m freaking out about losing healthcare. Stop flipping fighting about abortion and walls and focus on making sure your population is cared for and secure.

I’m fairly sure it’s some type of metallic makeup. She does it from time to time lately.

When I sat through Julia Sweeney give a 10 minute long “kids, ammirite??” unfunny TED talk I shook my head and stopped bothering.

My father turns 69 right after Xmas, he and my mom are very happily married. And they easily get on my ever loving nerves... I’ve been making a point to spend more time with them, make it count etc. Seeing this makes me realize even moreso how important this is.

I’m watching my three year old nephew today so my SIL can do some shopping. Going to hug him extra close before I give him back today - IF I give him back.

What what in all the fuckery what fucking what? No. This is so transparent, and not OK.