1. I came here to see the dudes, because honestly I really think that pro athletes are like way out ahead of actors/rockstars when it comes to their clothes, and I was not disappointed. Odell Beckham’s shoe game is ON POINT.

Agreed about Homeland, this season was excruciating in a good way. Carrie is just...a disaster.

OMG HE’S SO CUTE!

Agreed, I see that too - and as they get older and start building more wealth, it only intensifies. Young people who live in arty, urban neighborhoods start to have kids and move out to suburbs with “better” schools; they start to complain about “my tax dollars” going for this or for that. I think that a lot of high…

yyyesssssss all of this is so right. also:

seriously omg! not acceptable after, like, 3 dates. ATROCIOUS.

I had a similar experience, I’m not sure I really understood where we were on the spectrum until I realized what a privilege it was to graduate from college with virtually no debt.

So I’ve had a harmless crush on this one guy since college. We were in a study group together, and he was (a) brilliant (b) handsome in a sort of off-kilter way (c) so, SO nice. He had a serious girlfriend then, though, and they’ve since gotten married. They also live overseas. I have also gotten married. I have not…

So, I really see your point, about the “wedding” supplanting the “marriage” in the forefront of our minds when we endeavor to put on these huge celebrations. I really do. Because I got married last Spring and had a distinct “SHIT JUST GOT REAL” moment under the chuppah, when it sort of hit me like a freight train that…

I don’t even care what really happened, I just LOVE the idea of Diddy going to throw down on his son’s mean coach (who, as I understand from Sports Center, has a rep for being an emotionally abusive dick). I mean, there is now something that Diddy and my mom might have in common! Because I can think of a couple…

I was GLUED to the southern reach trilogy, and I don’t even read a lot of sci fi. Honestly, I was not even 100% sure what was going on like 40% of the time, and had to read the last 100 pages like 3 times, but I didn’t even care because it was just so different and cool.

ooh! other fun things I’ve seen people carrying on the subway:

IMPOSSIBLE CHOICE.

so...has anyone here ever worked for a large company that was going through bad/chaotic times? and laying a bunch of people off? because it’s terrible. yes of COURSE sympathy should go first and almost entirely to the people who are losing their jobs. however, it’s not at ALL uncommon for the remaining employees to…

That city 100% does exist, in the 4 boroughs that aren’t Manhattan.

Not necessarily - I live in Queens and work in Manhattan and my commute is 25 minutes door to desk.

What is a “Jewish flag”? Do you mean...an Israeli flag?

Last two paragraphs: SO CORRECT. Dating bullshit sucks, but in my experience (both personal and observational), immediately becomes a non-issue when you meet the right person.

Ugh, yeah. More than once, I’ve been warned seriously by dudes that some woman I was working with was SUCH A BITCH, only to find out that she was a perfectly fine person who was just passionate and assertive. And I think there’s a chance that I’ve in turn become one of those women who is considered bitchy because I…

So, we chose not to have a cake and were very proud of ourselves for being so chill and low maintenance like that. Fast forward to the wedding, where we ended up having a portrait of us in tiny cupcakes (Baked By Melissa - you can do the art on their website) for dessert. My poor (saintly) sister had to assemble the…