Must admit that my subsequent google search of full frontal Bowie turned up with nothing interesting. I did not have illusions of him being larger than average (seems what he does is more important/interesting) but I would be surprised if he was statistically small, rather than average. Nonetheless, I can't find any…

Did David Bowie really have a small penis though?

Damn. You just described such a great Valentines Day night.

You're right. Never thought of it that way!

I ran into Alex Jones at one of the Alamo Theaters in Austin a few years ago. We were in the same movie. His cell phone went off, and he took it out in the lobby. An hour later or so, I went out to pee, and he was still in the lobby on his cell phone- he was pacing up and down the lobby shouting and ranting into the…

I thought she was into the grocer?

OK hence the “unilateral”. A LTR is about partnership, especially in a decades long marriage. Assuming we aren’t talking about asexuals here (who should have been up front in the first place), then sexual intimacy is a super important part of an LTR. All sorts of shit happens over the course of a lifetime, and as I’ve…

Oh yes. That explains it. I'm sure Alice was the responsible one in that family.

It’s strange that everyone keeps saying “you can’t force people to blah blah blah.” I never said anything about forcing anyone to do anything. Obviously you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do, and of course coercion is wrong for a million reasons. What I said is that it’s selfish.

For sure. But I said “healthy” people. There are plenty of reasons why there might be a period of abstinence over the course of a long term relationship, especially decades-long marriages. Other than illness, reasons I named included those early years of child-rearing when the mother is still nursing and recovering…

“Use it on chicks”? We are talking about people who are already in a long term relationship. If you have been in a relationship with a “chick” for over a year and she refuses all physical contact with you beyond hugging and short kisses, then go ahead and “use” my rationale on her. It’s not a pick up line- we are…

Yes! She absolutely did not look like a woman managing six kids!

Oh yes, that is all totally rational and also can be very hot and is totally normal- I know exactly what you mean about taking it slow. I was similar when I was first starting out with people I really liked. Please note this is totally different than the situation described in the story, and also this is totally…

You are way over reading what I said. This is a long term relationship where one person has decided (without consideration for the other person’s natural desires) to restrict all physical contact to hugging and short kisses. No one is talking about fecal play or specific sex acts or any complicated thing. No one is…

Nobody was talking about what people are allowed to do or trying to limit choices they make for their life. All I said is that it is selfish to unilaterally decide that sex is no longer a part of a LTR.

Didn't he claim that he didn't point the gun at the victim but just had the gun in his hand and then got scared and accidentally fired- and the bullet hit the wall (as it was not aimed at Gurley) and ricocheted. That's how it hit the victim.

Yes I agree. On the other hand, the thing with Garner is that police violence apologists CAN make the argument that Garner was resisting. They can use the whole “if he would’ve just done what they told him to do the first time” etc. In this case (the stairwell shooting) there is no other side. The guy who was killed…

Dude. I like to ramble about things online too, but all you are doing is making a bunch of assumptions about things you don’t about regarding another person and then telling them to me, and I don’t know that person either, so I’m not going to continue talking about this. I mean, this is an assumption that she’s lying…

I know what a friends with benefits is. I have no idea what you are talking about regarding this person's desires for a friend with selected benefits. Also, she's not the one that is concerned about not getting it at home, etc.

I didn't see anything about force. Nor anything about keeping him around or about love. So this whole post is astonishing.