Did I mention there is basically no slut shaming in Scandinavia?

I'm glad to hear, honestly. Last time I criticized such a post I got bashed so badly I couldn't believe how no one would understand why it's not all empowerment, love & peace (though I never understood the "it's impossible to film people having sex in a way that isn't demeaning to women" either) .

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Having womens breast at display for male enticement, once again an instance of reducing female attractivity to body parts presented on a plate for men is not about objectification? Right. This free choice argument is silly, it ignores all the conditioning and self-objectification women go through. Take two rats,…

That's a good point (about it being a news paper, also the exclusion of women). Not sure though if society is better when everyone is objectified. Sounds like applying an inhuman model to all instead of humanizing society..hmm

yeah, I know that, but still the mainstream feminist current seems to be against page 3 but pro (mainstream) porn. I am really interested in understanding the arguments

4 realz. Swedish people (especially the men) are very attractive, and Icelandic people look like the 10% most attractive Swedes or so. I remember having lately breakfast in a random place in Iceland, me totally hangovered, looking around everyone was looking like a model/actor. The weird thing is that one gets used…

I am very confused by the empowerment vs. objectification stance people take. How comes this is objectification and not ok and for instance porn is? I'm not against porn per se, and truly hope for a future where women can be as open & adventurous sexually, but according to the "free" choice argument (which imo…

If you like this sort of looks I recommend visiting Scandinavia. He looks quite typical for the dudes there.

oh nooo I complimented a married guy...I will nullify it by saying that you must have the coolest wife on the planet :-)

this is probably inappropriate but if you're a guy I think you're kind of hot.

awww my gawwwd uuu such a daahlin <3 <3 <3

No, not every criticism is, but this "attention seeker" predicate definitely is extremely gendered. I have never heard anyone calling Charlie Sheen an attention seeker, neither anyone of the rest..

ok. Let me know if you find more than 1 guy ever been called an attention seeker, and a woman being praised for her self promotion. I'll be waiting.

The skit she gets is waaay out of proportion though. Pretty very sure a guy in her position wouldn't. White mal racism? Norm. White male banging through the entire length of an episode? Norm. White male jerking off next to sibling/stranger/jesus? Norm.

"men are expected to self-promote while women are just attention seeker". Can we please stop using this gendered insult?

yeah but isnt that sad? And isnt it courageous to at least try and be authentic? I seriously hate all the hollywood fakeness.."oooooh i love my film colleagues soooo much we are suuuuch goood friends" bla bla bla >_>

I feel sorry that many people on the internet will prevent others to be open & authentic...

I think the fact that you stand up for your rights and claim your place, despite having to expect even more backlash from the public - also the endurance. I know what you mean, many people call me also strong and I never know what they are talking about, but I think it is difficult for many to expose themselves over…

let me think where I've heard that before..oh yes, after each essay writing in school :)