Please don’t give up. Is there anything us jezzies can do for you?

Ugh I’m so with you on the job thing but am feeling really stuck where I’m at since leaving would mean a significant pay cut most likely. I’ve ended some relationships and felt an immediate weight off my shoulders. That’s always nice.

I used to be cool girl in the beginning of relationships too, and I found it was a lot of pressure to live up to, pretending I didn’t give a shit. So I started being more honest off the get go and not just letting things go that actually bothered me. Idk what your situation is or how you’re acting like a cool girl,…

Wtf! Was it a literal run? Why are your neighbors such assholes?! I’m assuming you’re mostly ok now? That sounds so terrible :( I’m sorry. I hope you at least got some candy eventually.

Yoga pants are awesome and nearly always appropriate in my mind (prob not at a wedding, funeral, or red carpet event. Any other gathering is fair game). I hope you are able to have some fun!

Idk anything about ivf/freezing eggs etc so I hope this boosts you and you get good responses.

Sleep paralysis, it’s a real bitch. Happens to me like every other month.

Sleep paralysis, it’s a real bitch. Happens to me like every other month.

That sounds amazing and I hope you have a wonderful day! I’ve never had oyster dressing (is it the same as oyster stuffing? Haven’t had that either) but I loooooove oysters. Have fun!

I’m chuckling because honestly fuck my feelings I’d like to turn them oooooooff

I’m so so sorry. This might not be good advice, but when I’ve been in relationships that ended I always remember my first breakup (I was a dumb teen but omg it broke me) and how painful it was and how Ididn’t think I could ever be happy again. But I was able to move on, I met new people and my heart was broken all…

Goddamn it. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Just a reminder, this shit is not normal! Don’t think of it as normal. I’m so sorry you’re taking this on. I hope the rest of your holidays are better.

Holy shit this upsets me

Fuck off

Rape and being cheated on are totally different experiences. They both violate trust but I can tell you they’re not the fucking same. They don’t belong in the same category. The fact that this is a discussion (brought on by a male commenter who has not answered to his bullshit claims) is happening is a fucking insult.…

You’re right. Idk why I try with this person!

That looks like an abomination and I feel personally offended. Ack!

If it’s any consolation everyone is always jealous of the friend that moves abroad to “find themselves”. And ya know what, knowing yourself is important! As long as you don’t become totally self centered in the process. So, you do you.

Omg this comment has me cracking up thank you

Aw shit :( well I hope you come to a decision that works for you! If it’s any consolation, 22-25 were sort of like my teen existential crisis years all over again. It was a painful age. I’m only 27 now so take this with a grain of salt. But I definitely (mostly) recovered from my quarter life crisis and now only have…

I cannot wait for pecan pie tomorrow thanks to your comment. Mmmm