That sounds heavenly. I’m actually hosting dinner, and I like to cook and I like everyone who’s coming but the thought of all the prep is exhausting me. So Black Friday will have to be popcorn and wine day

That sounds great! Tom yum soup? That’s my favorite

Shequalist is hilarious

Yeah I could see why people might think he has more experience considering he looks 46

I fucking wish!

I don’t know if pioneer woman *actually* has a recipe for chicken enchilasagne but combining Mexican and Italian dishes is one of my biggest pet peeves. It’s fucking gross. Salsa is not tomato sauce and mozzarella cheese is not appropriate for most Mexican dishes!! Knock it off. The flavors are all wrong.

I think the name “pioneer woman” gives people an image of a down-home hard working lower middle class woman. At least that’s what comes to my mind. But I also don’t care if she’s rich and don’t have an opinion on her either way.

My lazy Thanksgiving is popcorn and wine and everyone else can leave me the hell alone!

Last time I went to Olive garden I saw a cockroach on the wall

I saw them shortly after the election last year and it was so cathartic bring at that show. I was talking to a friend last night about their new album and wanting to go to their show. Not anymore. Fucking predator.

Fuck, I’m so sorry your dude friend missed the point :( I don’t doubt that there are dudes worth friendship out there, I’m just too exhausted to try. I have wonderful (and sometimes shitty, because human) women friends. And I don’t have to worry about their motives. I love the fuck out of my friends, I’d do anything…

Agreed. I don’t shut men down off the bat but I also don’t waste my emotional labor on them or try to forge friendships. I have a few dudes that I’ve known since high school and have always treated me well and looked out for me (and I’ve looked out for them) but they live far away so we have a casual texting…

- Woman who was abused by a long term boyfriend, raped by a friend, gropped by a gay man, had her shirt ripped off on stage by a drag queen, molested by at least 3 male friends (I started blocking shit out) sexually harassed by men at work at at least 4 jobs. It’s not a fucking contest and people with a conscience…

Ugh, same. I’ve said to guys (new friends )who wanted to hangout that I only wanted to be friends and was not interested in anything sexual. If that wasn’t what they were after I understood, but I wanted to be clear. They still tried to fuck me. I’m not friends with men anymore.

Bragging about sexual assault is bad. Doesn’t matter if you’re LGBTQ. Sorry, but the same rules apply.

Fuck off

Yeah I was the same way, hold things in until I explode and then act out like an asshole so my point is lost because I was fucking up, so the conversation became focused on how I was acting. I got through it with a lot of therapy and eventually going on anxiety and depression meds. It was not my first choice but I…

I’m sorry I went off on you and focused on that word so much. It wasn’t fair to you and I was responding to an entire thread (in my head, and when I wrote my comment) but I targeted you and that was wrong. I understand what you’re talking about when you say commenters ganged up on you and made you question yourself…

I am the same way if it makes you feel any better. It takes a shit ton of work to realize that you can just say what you’re thinking/feeling instead of spiralling and stressing and figuring out how to get the message across when you can just use words! It’s scary at first but it’s more of a habit thing. Once you can…

Thank you stranger :)