Way to talk about your wife’s affair in a statement asking people to respect your privacy, asshole. You do not deserve an amazing name like Tullian Tchividjian.

not the same thing. being mocked for being a white girl is not a part of some institutional oppression. one of you just had to do it,didn’t you? *donkey kong head smack*

‘You’re lucky you got that good hair.’

Holy fuckballs! If I had a dollar for every time some fanboy got hard/racist when he realized that I was a nerd, I’d be richer than Croesus.

I NEVER WANT TO PROTECT ANYONE WHO ISN’T SMALL AND BLONDE WHERE IS THE PROBLEM WHAT IS THE ISSUE HERE

Funny how only white people seem to have the spirit of so many roles!

Hmm what does White Kara think though

They don’t visit the comments section so much as permanently live there. There seems to be nothing we can do about it.

Agreed. I’ve been physically stalked, I’ve received hateful verbal abuse a la “Bye Felipe” on dating sites for turning guys down or not replying as quickly as they would like, and I’ve also received “love letters” from someone who turned threatening when I didn’t respond in the way that he wanted me to. Some people…

I refer to things that are right there, according to what he said in the story. You accuse me of having no evidence, and yet below, you invent this elaborate narrative, out of nothing:

I don’t even believe she had cancer, honestly. I think she was a liar and a tease. The way I see it. This guy was her ugly work…

Meeting someone for a meal isn’t leading them on and she was under no obligation to spare his feelings or show appreciation for his unwanted, grandiose gestures. If he was under the impression that she owed him something or that he could convince her to keep a promise she made when she was sseriously ill, then that’s…

Yeah because nothing BAD ever happens to a woman who refuses to date someone, like, say, getting stabbed.

Approaching damned near “absolutely positive,” I’d say. And he probably railed on Reddit about how women only date douchebags and don’t appreciate a proper gentleman once he got home.

Got rid of cancer. Can’t shake creepy male stalker “friend” who won’t take hints. There’s no cure for desperate.

I did a full body cringe when the “romantic” reveal happened. That there is Ultimate Level Super Saiyan Nice Guy Bullshit. That is Nicholas Sparks reductio ad absurdum to the max. That is a Cancer Porn Teen Novel brought to horrible, shambling zombie life by an MRA twenty five year old. IT. IS. AWFUL.

Honestly, I was expecting the 5yr free thing to mean they were celebrating his 5 years free from “the hospital” or “the prison” for some seriously fucked up violent activity with a sexual component and she was his terribly uncomfortable fated object of his affection who had possibly fucked a normal person while he was…

Also, if she felt she had to give him the “IF I’m alive and cancer-free five for five years, then maybe” line, then odds are, it was far from her first attempt at telling him she wasn’t interested.

a direct answer will 99 times out of 100 serve both parties better.

Yes, really. Say "no." Say it again. Then say it with a restraining order. I made the mistake of not being firm and leaving room for interpretation of my non- interest once. Once. As hard as it is, you have to be upfront and honest. Do it in a well lit, public place with a trusted witness by your side, but do it, and…

There are guys complaining that she should have just told him “no” from the start but really???