I am Team Tell Her. If they have a secret open marriage he needs to learn some discretion and if he’s cheating she needs to know so, at the very least, she can get tested for STIs. You aren’t going to ruin a friendship by telling her and you may be doing her the biggest favor of her life.

And in other pictures, blue shirt’s sign shows more letters. “Gers”actually and I have a hard time giving him the benefit of the doubt on what the start of that word would be.

I’ve been limiting my news for the last week because sometimes it all gets really fucking overwhelming. So I got my coffee and girded my loins this morning. This made me laugh so hard my stomach hurts. I also read most of this to my husband when I could catch my breath. An excellent, excellent way to start my weekend.…

WORST.DAY.EVER.

Your mental health before baby isn’t necessarily a good predictor either. I have dealt with lifelong depression and was fully prepared to deal with some form of PPD. Never had an issue. I was shocked. In fact, the first six months after my first was the best I had been in my life. I credit a lot of that to expecting…

Not related but I clicked on the picture because the woman on the right (Leslie Van Houten) looks EXACTLY like my aunt Meredith in her late teens/early twenties. And my mother was often questioned by cops (well she’s a narc so it was probably only once) in San Francisco for looking like Patty Hearst. The names she…

Oh gross. I wish, just once, someone could be a jerk in a new and inventive way. Instead of all the “undercover” misogyny. Be the guy who insults everyone’s shoes or something. You could be friends with that guy.

See now, look what a good person you are. In your shoes I would have dismissed my comment and thought some nasty things. I expected that. I was more hoping to plant a seed for the future, and I was mean and needlessly bitchy. But not you. I bet you are a sweet person who is generally kind to others and you deserve…

Jesus Christ. Walk the fuck away and do some real soul searching to figure out why you have a hole in your self/mind that needed to be filled with someone else’s husband. Of course he introduced you to the next flavor, he’s a scumbag and you have issues. Cheaters cheat. That’s like...their thing. Expecting respect and…

For help setting boundaries and dealing with passive aggressive nonsense.

For help setting boundaries and learning how to drop the rope.

These are my favorite Discworld books. They make me so happy, so sad, so everything.

Yeah so kinja logged me out of this burner and since I didn’t have the key I gave it a week or so to maybe fix itself. I gave up and made a fresh burner (above) only to be logged out of that. I kept my burner key tho and tried logging back in. Unsuccessful. But I am magically logged back in to this one. So I’m…

I can’t believe I’m going to say this. She has a fucking point about the lemons. I don’t eat bar fruit or take any in my drinks. Worked in too many bars. Seen too many lemons and limes hit the floor, the cutting board, the drink, without any washing.

I think you are looking for “gaslighting.”

I am inspired. Perhaps one day you could provide us a recipe for Bloody Marys? I’m thinking tomato aspic with vodka like jello shots.

Eat at Jai Yun. It’s pricey and absolutely worth it. Pro tip-during one of the courses (3rd maybe) a bowl filled with what looks like kinda slimy raw scallop chunks will arrive. Get there first. It’s abalone in egg whites and it’s the best thing I have ever eaten (I do not like sushi or scallops for those who are…

Hi there. White person to white person.

Is there a better way than a quick soak and pop it on the grill or oven rack until the husk is dry and just this side of charred? I think all restaurants just boil but that’s for suckers.