True, bad wording on my part. I should have said hugely racist and anti-semitic even for the already racist and anti-semitic Trump supporters.

I mean, I already called her a Trump supporter.

Or 4

Isn’t she also hugely racist and anti-semitic?

Same!

Jenna Jameson is a unreconstructed racist. 

Jenna Jameson? Uber Trump-supporter Jenna Jameson is looking for sympathy?

I don’t know if this matters, but I just started listening to the Maron podcast, and he said he recorded his interview with Moore a couple weeks ago, so this quote from her would have preceded the NYT article.

The empathy is literally a qualifying characteristics for what a narcissist looks for. 18 years for me....just figured it out this past year.  Getting out of the fog is wonderful. He's moving out in July.

It’s a woman thing. Our mainstream culture constantly reinforces the message that we have to be the sex object, or be the mother. Both of those roles are about pleasing others and not ourselves. And when we have a partner who promotes that dynamic, who exacerbates it, and sucks all of the energy in the room back into…

Mine’s a Casey too! And yes they smell empathy. My ex MIL tried to explain to me that it was *totes a good thing* for him to get remarried right away and abandon all hope of him parenting our children ever because “he needs someone, you know, and I can’t do it all” BITCH NO ONE CAN, and you enabled him to believe that…

Because that way you know you’re the boss. Also she’s supposed to only like you.

Your Mike is my Casey. He still can’t figure out why we’re not together, and continues to blame me for his current failures, event though I left that mess over 16 years ago. Like... the time span of the death of our failed, toxic relationship can now drive a car. Move on dude.

I used to work in radio during her early days and she was legitimately the nicest artist that came by the studio. We had a contest winner who won a makeover with her and she couldn’t have been sweeter to her. She was patient and kind and a real joy to have in the office.

Why? Why? Why do they do that? I’ve often wondered if it’s because they don’t want to see you love something that isn’t them because if you do then it’s competition.

I’d ask what they get out of it, but I know the answer: life. Vampiric narcissistic supply from draining the soul of a strong person, bit by bit, little by little, for years. It’s sad that this experience is so familiar to so many of us. I hate that we all know a person like this.

This right here. Mandy is a perfect example of not forgiving someone (or I don’t get the sense she has) but not being mired in hate and anger either. She’s very empirical about the whole thing, and I admire her for it.

Mandy is definitely speaking a truth a lot of women can identify with. I think most of us have dated a Ryan Adams, myself included.

It definitely sounds like Mandy Moore is accessing therapy and has such a good head on her shoulders. More power to her, forget about the ‘bad guys’ who did bad - and let’s focus on the people who are so resilient, who learn from their experiences, and seem ready to hold people accountable without dragging them…

Yes, you feel so small when you are in a relationship like that.