The way you think: I like it.

One of my bridesmaids showed up uninvited to my husband's bachelor party. Then flashed her breasts at everyone half the night. Now, I don't mean to sound judgmental about that- after all, as long as I'd known her, she was prone to showing people her boobs while drunk. I've always been in the 'her body, her…

If you want to be privy to more craziness (which I really enjoy hearing about secondhand), then no, don't tell her she is in fact a douchenugget. You have to smile and nod and ask at least one follow up question when she visits you.

More like I don't have the money to go there the year I'm paying for my own wedding.

Do weddings just turn seemingly reasonable people into raging assholes? My coworker, who is usually sweet to the point of being annoying, just got engaged. Suddenly, she's in my cubicle bitching about how the girl who was supposed to plan her bridal shower had to back out.

OK, let me guess, you're the sister.

True story: My best friend once rented a 3 bedroom house with a mutual kinda friend who turned out to be a dead beat alcoholic. After we finally kicked her out (after 3 months not paying rent and a lot of other shit), I found a really unflattering picture of her, turned it into a graffiti stencil with the text "Fuck…

Definitely reasonable grounds. You'll be happy you did it. Who needs drama and bad character at (and prior to) your wedding?

Ok I actually now have a serious problem relating to this. We just found out one of fiancé's groomsmen has had sex with the girl our best friend has been dating for several months...on two separate occasions. Although the relationship wasn't exclusive, groomsman and our best friend were also very close friends and he…

Aw, that's awful! I can totally understand being uncomfortable with an ex in the wedding party, but it's definitely not okay to say it's fine and then change your mind!

A co-worker of mine's fiance had to fire one of his groomsman from the wedding party after he threatened the bride to be with a gun while visiting their house. I admit they were less concerned about the wedding party bit than about what do to if this suddenly crazy guy showed up at the wedding anyway (thankfully he…

I got kicked out of my friend's wedding. In her defense, I totally deserved it.

I was really close friends with a guy named Aaron in my early 20's. Aaron and I had that rare chemistry that allowed us to be friends without and pretense of romance. Aarons girlfriend had just gone into boot camp with the Army when he and I met and I'd really only met her through the random phone call and occasional…

My wedding party was just my sister. Boring. However...

Yeah, I got kicked out of a wedding. For starters I was a late addition to the bridal party because I was "the least likely of the bride's friends to get bitchy and butthurt about it" So the dress has already been picked at this point and it suits the rest of the girls (all skinny types) and so doesn't me (I'm a curvy…

My friend made the mistake of assuming I would be in her wedding party. She never asked. So one day when she was discussing her plans and how I would be wearing XYZ etc, I said wait. Rewind. I am not going to be in your wedding. I made her cry. I really hated being in my brother's wedding and had no intention of doing…

My sister in law called me up before my wedding to her brother and asked me to explain what right we thought we had to get married in a church. Told her I wasn't going to have that talk then kicked her out of the wedding party. Good decision.

I actually have the opposite problem. My fiancee and I decided to forego a wedding party to avoid that potentially happening where we had to ask someone to leave the wedding party (ahem—one problem friend in particular). Problem-friend told me my engagement wasn't official until I asked her to be my MOH (in front of…

I wouldn't say that I "fired" a bridesmaid, more like gave her the opportunity to bow-out gracefully because it seemed like she had a lot going on in her life. She would say she was going to attend a shower or dress fitting and then just not show up. It came down to the wire when it was time to order dresses. I was…

So this ended up being the opposite of kicking everyone out (although it started out that way) For my brother's wedding-my sister in law has a long standing beef with one of her sisters and to cut down on drama decided to not have any family members in the wedding party. Except the one sister she likes. Needless to…