My ex-husband, if you asked him "do I look fat in this", would tell you, in detail why you did. Sometimes a yes or no answer is the best answer. Unlike your man, another women or your gay friend will give you advice about what you should wear rather than focusing on how many inches you need to lose around your waist…

Wow. So sorry to hear that. It is so very awful. I am appalled. :(

You're talking about a country that rarely has any sentence for rape at all. Where do you get these facts from?

Are you serious? A few hundred men?

That was fast.

That's not cool.

Oh you poor thing. I went to Boarding school too..on a scholarship. It was awful.

I can understand why my trust fund friends and my friends who Summer are not going to understand this at all...just like they don't understand a lot of things about me and what I can & can not afford.

I have to agree with the man who said that she should be working on these things in her own life...In fact, we should all aspire to be like her dream husband who is, admittedly, perfect but we should all try to get as close as possible.

Yeah, that must be it.

Again, her mental state is not an excuse for the way that she and the several other women in this case were treated. If she was indeed abused & stalked, she may have legitimate reason to be "unstable" if that's what you mean by suicidal. I was abused & stalked. I may not have been suicidal because I had a lot of…

For a while, that was me. I moved to another town and had a lot of trouble making friends. Sometimes it's just the place that you are living. Sometimes you are just *that different". People should remember that friendship is a two way street. I do know a couple of people who are so charismatic that they do not have to…

That's the impression that I get. I can see that it must be very uncomfortable. I assume that they say ignorant shit to other white people since I frequently find myself mistaken for one of them. I've even had incidents where people knew that I was biracial and just plain forgot.

You also ... missed the point. Completely.

You kind of missed the point there.

That's the pleasure of being mixed and looking white. You get to hear all of the racist bullshit from white people that others don't get to hear.

Never mind. I see that two other women did come forward and the Dean has spoken out also.

I can't edit my last comment. Reading through all of these comments brings home the point that people handling these issues really do need to be trained about abusive relationships and rape. The response that "she's a nutter" because she experienced depression and was suicidal is a bit surprising. Then again, I know a…

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Why do you think that she's an absolute nutter? I'm just curious. If she was in an abusive relationship and was suicidal, does that automatically excuse the abuser?