James Buchanan? Whose Presidency preceeded the Civil War?

I don’t think it’s harmless. It’s creepy and unsettling and is inherently violent and objectifying of women. Dude has ISSUES. On top of that, your gut was telling you to GTFO - that tells you he wasn’t harmless.

PEOPLE ARE SPLIT ON THIS????? nope nope no

Holy mother of—-! WHAT THE FUCK?! I consider myself a pretty open-minded person, but JESUS! Even knowing you’re obviously alive and well, I still feel felt pit-of-my-stomach scared for you as I read this.

ugh and in addition to the violence, its dehumanizing. women aren’t actual people, they’re just bodies (or heads) to him that allow him to get his rocks off. not actual people. it’s no longer just a fetish if you can’t enjoy sex & intimacy without it.

SOLIDLY IN THE BIG DEAL CAMP.

the small online decapitation fetish community

good lord. i don’t know why i’m surprised that there are guys out there who are into the idea of fucking a woman’s body that doesn’t have a brain or face or mouth.

HOW CAN ANYONE BE NONCHALANT ABOUT THIS?!?!?! Holy crap. That is terrifying and no no no no no no no no absolutely not. Not ok, not at all. Fucking christ!

You know, it’s probably harmless, but you had no idea whether it was or not in the moment. This story is absolutely terrifying, partly because I think most women have dealt with something like this — “am I going to die in this situation? Or am I overreacting?”.

I....would not be okay with that. I know fetishes can get real, real weird but NOPE to decaptitation. I too would have fled.

No fucking way.

According to him he wouldn’t chop any heads off, but I bet if he happened on to a car wreck with a decapitated woman he’d ignore aiding any possible survivors just so he could masturbate. You were right to run.

I’d definitely err on the side of caution (and keeping my head) myself, so good for you. Also, this:

This. I have some violent stuff that turns me on (and I have a theory that some people tend to be turned on by what terrifies them so it’s a little more complicated than wish fulfillment/serial killer desires, but...) WHY OH WHY would you drive someone out to the country and scare the shit out of them like that?

I don’t know, but I like your story and I salute you for PLAYING IT COOL whilst slowly extricating yourself. Every damn time something like this happens in the movies,the ‘victim’ freaks out! Aaaargh! That doesn’t help anything! Play along and GTFO! Good for you. Sorry you experienced this.

Uhhhhh there’s nothing okay about telling someone about your violent fetish after you’ve isolated them in your home. If he was really in touch with his kink in a healthy way, he would have known that.

They need to come up with a cure for fetishes.

Yikes, serial killer in the making, creepy.

This particular story completely splits my listeners. Some of my friends are horrified; my brother became furious at ME (in a protective sort of way) when I told him it; but still others don’t see it as a big deal, or at least, do not find it the least alarming. In a few cases, people are quick to defend the non-scary…