Care to give any categorical, generalisable examples of where "husband got screwed over by his wife" or shall we go ahead - fairly safely - and assume you're a myopic misogynist?

Yeah, that was my thought. Kid is cute, no doubt. But really? Filming his chastisement?

The other thing I was going to mention was that maybe others could list sex-positive blogs? I know that a few people around here are not-so-keen on Dan Savage. I'm sure there are others who are fabulous.

Lots of other, really good replies but I just thought I would add some things:

I've been thinking this myself recently. Mainly because I've realised - over the course of a few years - a lot of my male friends have admitted to seriously thinking/fantasising about fucking me. Which is kind of uncomfortable because I've known some since I was quite young.

My God that's a fabulous coat

I thought the Bieber one was funny. Dafuq is happening?!?!?

And puke . . .

I like your:

I heart you so hard for this.

I'm an academic - totally do it. This kind of thing is totally normal and because we often get some public funding, you really are obliged to act in the public good (e.g. responding to people who are in no way connected to your work).

I do what I can :)

I totally agree. I mean, what the hell is wrong with people? Do they methodically go through all of their friends' profile pictures and point out problems with representation? No? Then it probably is one of those 'I don't breed so I am mightier than thou!' things. Ugh. People.

Your argument is going around in circles. It seems to be:

The insidious part is only when they feel their love/desire *should* be reciprocated. And, hey, just a tip: if someone says that they want someone with the qualities that you have without actually wanting to be a relationship with you, they're being very polite but they're saying that they're not attracted to you. …

In fairness, virtually every movie tells guys that this is the thing to do. But it's such a tremendous waste of time. So. Much. Time.

Two theories:

I suspect someone would have posted lots of gifs of confused sloths and maybe pointed people in the direction of an article that explains the bullshit that is the friendzone: http://leastlikely.net/the-friend-zone-is-bullshit-and-here-is-why/

Yeah, but that is the insidious entitlement raising its ugly head. If a guy desires a girl (or even loves her), then he feels that she is really obliged to reciprocate. I mean, he's perfect for her, right?!?!? It fundamentally ignores the fact that that woman probably knows herself better than this guy who is being…

Yeah, I don't know if they're really regretting it. I mean, I only just read your post and my vagina atrophied.