My ex had sole custody of his son. My job had moved me to the area they lived in after about 8 months of a long distance relationship. The plan was to stay with him while I looked for a place but I did the corporate housing thing and just transitioned to living with them because I was pretty much doing all the stuff…

Yeah, I’ve not heard anyone black or Latino with good things to say about their stay there. I know a lot of contractors who have made the trek and they all went there thinking it was going to be this cool vacation and ended up hating the entire continent. I am semi-fluent in Spanish and don’t want to have to worry too…

I don’t mind the new language thing. Belize is English speaking as well. I’m black so I want to move somewhere that multiculturalism is taken into consideration and appreciated as well. I’ve heard good things about New Zealand but not so much Australia :( If others have better perspectives, I’d love to hear them.

I had (and still have) a lot of friends who are moms and they loved that fact that they could have “real” convos with me. I’m not a mom but I met many of these women when I was dating a man who had a 5 yr old. We’re still friends because I care about their kids and family, but I care about them as WOMEN first.

It does happen, sadly. I dated a guy who had a son and I was a part of a few “mom” meetups when I first started dating him. Some of the shit I heard was ridiculous. I’m not the type to entertain BS so I quickly showed myself out of those groups that did. However, before figuring out what the deal was, I always noticed…

Honestly, I’m already looking at places to move to permanently. Places where I don’t have to deal with a 24 hour news cycle or the residue of people who consume that shit on the regular. So far on my list I have Belize, Panama, Dubai, Costa Rica and the Caribbean islands. As much as I love my family and have friends…

Most people couldn’t spot a sample if their life depended on it. They know it’s used but seem to be oblivious at just how it’s done. Diddy’s samples were annoying because he did little to nothing to transform them. Kanye is much slicker about how he uses samples. I give him credit for that.

I agree that his rapping is nowhere near as strong as it was when he first came out, but his production is fierce still.

There is a fine line between being honest and being a jerk. That being said, my biggest issue is people who lie for shit you don’t need to lie about. White lies about small stuff? Who cares. Not one is going into work “keeping it real” when they have an interview or are job hunting. They simple take their time off,…

Held accountable for what though? He was also “adopted” by Whitney and Bobby (I still do not get when/how they did this) and, depending on when he started dealing with them specifically, was subject to all the dysfunction just like she was. Unless he actively did something to her like injecting her with drugs or…

I actually thought he was decent. Nothing special but not horrible either.

As much as he’s into himself, his music is very good. Everyone may not like it, but it’s innovative and infuses a lot of elements that people aren’t even aware of (old school r&b, jazz, etc). He seems like an ass personally but professionally (music-wise) he knows what he’s doing.

She’s a well-off, thin, blonde white woman in a high profile custody battle. When I think of VF’s target audience, this is literally who I imagine.

I remembered her name afterward and yes, yes she was. She had a spin-off of sorts that I watched but it didn’t last long :(

I guess ridiculous in that she was somewhat closed-minded about what she wanted. HOWEVER, Swapnil was not trying to hear anything she was saying so despite the fact that she was a bit unmovable, he did nothing to accommodate in a quality fashion.

We’re saying the same thing. Whatever her issues, she had them and since she was his client, it was his job to find out what the issue was or at least the best way to accommodate her in something flattering and appropriate for her requests.

Emilio was good but he KNEW IT. Lol. Tim could not stand him but was always coldly cordial.

I can still watch season 3 even though I know who wins. They were all so.damn.good.

There was one season...ONE where I think everyone brought their fucking A Game. It was the season with Uli, the red-head lady who was pregnant, Michael from ATL and Jeffrey. They were the final four and their shit was immaculate. Any of them could have won. Still my favorite season, next to season 7 (mostly because it…

Nina Garcia is the worst for that. Lol. I hate that line from her.