Nah. If you don't like something, you don't like it. Whether it's under someone's control or not has NOTHING to do with a preference for or against it. And it shouldn't. Some people don't want to date black women because they aren't attracted to us. I'm black. I don't care. I'd rather date someone who WANTS to date me…

Maybe I'm missing it but we often talk about how your parents should be the model for what you look for (and when they are shitty, how most of us end up with BS relationships for a spell) in a relationship. So when that sentiment is expressed, now it's weird? How she choose to frame it might have been a bit over the…

It was everything. EVERYTHING.

I need to use "all assy" stat! Lol.

Man, I had to tell an ex that I broke up with 6 years ago to stop contacting me. I usually have no issue with saying hello and doing the brief "you good? good. I'm great, moving on," convo. But he kept wanting to rehash shit that happened 7 years ago. Dude, you had the opportunity to deal with things then. I left.…

My last breakup was tough. Instead of rehashing it over and over and answering "what happened" with everyone I knew, I just wrote about the events that led up to our breakup in the notes section of Facebook in a CLOSED thread for a select few people to read. That way they would know what happened and I'd only have to…

Or being a man. That seems to work well also.

Judd Apatow's wife Leslie (?) Mann is pretty freaking slim and I think she's hilarious. There's room for everyone Rebel. Everyone...

I was told point blank by a white guy in high school that I had DSL and kept saying it because everyone around him thought it was SOOOOO hilarious. Until. Until I kicked the shit out of his balls and told him that while I might have "DSL" his dick would never know the pleasure.

LMAO! Yes, they need an attendant to ensure that coke sniffing off of boobs is an integral part of the club-going experience at that venue ;)

It has to be the dumbest and WORST job ever. Like...EVER. I get why people in bathrooms with high traffic areas hire them. A club needs someone to ensure the bathroom stays straight and people are in there doing coke off each others boobs. Fine. But, when I go to a restaurant and there's a bathroom attendant, I'm like…

Damn... All this time I thought Rashida was. I stand corrected.

There are so many complex layers to this type of madness. I think your solution makes sense.

She dated Tupac. She did. Not her sister.

On the flip side, my white "I've never seen or known black people before" roommate in college actually bought me a tanning pass for the winter. She actually thought that if I didn't tan I'd lose a lot of my color. SMH. It was a long sophomore year in college.

Yeah, her basically finding another dude to stand in BS's (I like that his stage name initials are BS, cuz his career really is some bullshit) place and then wore the same thing, had it at the same place and pretty much carried on as she would have had she have married BS is...well, some BS.

Lol, it's funny because when I read that he didn't write it from a bitter place I said to myself, "I know the place he wrote it from."

LOL, when I read that I thought, "that's a pretty damn good description of him for real." She (or he) wins.

Those movies are awful. AWFUL!

I said that because, like the article has pointed out, people watch for the women, not the men. So the women in the industry are the driving force behind the "product" (for lack of better term) yet men still control how it's marketed, branded, and a lot of how the women's careers unfold.