I kinda think their is a standard "good at sex" though. Is the person attentive, enthusiastic and experienced? Because that helps? And more than anything, chemistry helps...a lot. But, without that "take it off NOW" type chemistry, you can still pretty "good" at sex with someone.

First off, thank you for the correction. Second, your screen-name is awesome!

Yes, it happens. I get it all the time as well. But in the context of racism, racists don't give a fuck where I'm from. I'm black. That's good enough for them to start in on the bullshit.

And unless he has some records to back that up, we don't actually know that. Pres. Obama's Nigerian father's people could have very well been slaves, either in the US or abroad.

I learned this the hard way. Block everyone, ex or not, that you don't want in your life. Or just set your privacy settings up the way you want them (because they can be customized) and you'll never have to worry about your ex asshole bf or gf hitting you up asking how you've been.

I mean, in his defense, I didn't know some men didn't put their penis upright when in briefs or boxer briefs. I mean, I had only dealt with a penis when it was erect and I just assumed that when in underwear, even in it's flaccid state, it would be up too. Lol. It wasn't until I was like 24 or 25 and I saw my…

Boring is cool for everyday people. Boring is cool for "stars" too. However, boring is not cool when you're doing a promo tour for one of the hottest books turned movies ever.

So wait...this movie is based on a true story/real person? I had NO idea. To be fair, I only saw one preview like months ago when I went to the movies. I don't have a TV so I don't see regular commercials, included movie previews.

There are so many other plain brunettes though, that I'd rather see on the cover of Vogue (a magazine I will never read, but still). Jennifer Garner. Anne Hathaway. And other non-descript brown -haired women. (lol, I can't think of any others.) This chick just seems...boring as hell. And not in a good way.

Aww, damn. I'm super sorry to hear about that experience. I was all set to come in and tell people how my experience with a tampon removal (pulled the string with his teeth no less) was oddly hot, but now I just cannot stop imagining how terrible that was. I'm sorry.

The thing that makes me understand her line of reasoning is him saying he was outside after she texted about her being in the hospital. Like... Wtf?! Was her solution over the top? Sure. Understandable though? Hell yes.

The entire time, almost like she thought, "if I just face the wall she can't see me." I tried very hard not to laugh. Lol

I caught my cousin and his girl in the storage/laundry closet in a cabin at our family reunion and I kid you not...when I opened the closet door my cousin said "oh hey,", walked out of the closet and left his girl there. Her dumbass* didn't have the good sense to follow him out. Instead, she stood in the tiny closet,…

They are both right, they are both wrong. I get that she needs to STFU about "sluts" and "baby killers" if she's out galavanting with another man while she is married. I get that he's "no hypocrite" so he's pointing her out. However, both of these individuals seem like they are just loud and obnoxious for all the…

LMAO...I literally LOL'd at that part.

The only reason I said no is because after two dates, you do not know someone well enough to know if they are fucking crazy. Doing it anonymously seems like a good choice, but unless this dude is actively dating more than just the OP, then it would be pretty easy for him to trace it back to her and retaliate. She's…

I can understand that but for someone in an abusive situation, that peace of mind can be the key to rebuilding their trust in themselves and making the decision to leave once and for all.

Lily Pulitzer clothes look like every obnoxious thing about the south rolled into one garment.

There was very good reason for me to have done this and my reasons for doing so went far beyond revenge. This man is now awaiting trial so...

Nope. Yes, I'm sure you'd want to know. However, unless you want to insert yourself directly into their situation and you have no reason to think this man is a psycho, then I'd say just leave it.