For example, we know that men can learn to not use physical force, but can still be extremely controlling and threatening and dangerous, without ever breaking the law. Men in treatment programs usually know exactly how far they can walk up to being dangerous without being arrested, because that's what we've taught…

I think the difference in that example of a woman only dating black men is that she probably was not downing other people while announcing her choice. What a lot of men do is they say they will ONLY date a hot chick who is 22 and thin and all things of airbrushed dreams, but will GO IN on women who don't meet their…

This chick sounds like she has a legit personality disorder. That shit is not funny in the least. I would not at all be surprised if she made all of this shit up for publicity for her awful writing (which I've never read and never want to now…maybe she'll stalk Jezebel staff for writing this review)

Her boobs were awesome. She could wear whatever she wanted. I give you no argument there. The issue was how she tried to play coy like she didn't know people were looking at her tits when they were always on display. No hate. I was very amused by this song and dance she did, cuz she did it often; which is why we had…

It's also dangerous and contributes to the ever-growing battle against the image of women. It's one thing to have beauty and talent that won't quit, but when you enhance yourself but refuse to acknowledge it or worse…tout is as real (looking at YOU Kim K) you create this extraordinarily unattainable image for not just…

I didn't think you were being snarky at all. I just think a lot of people actually do think that marrying a man with money AUTOMATICALLY makes one a gold digger. Which is not at all the case and especially with a lot of these young athletes. They usually marry the woman who was there during the ramen nights…and cheat…

That's really fucked up. One of the places I worked for the co-founder was a woman who choose to have kids later in life. She was hella supportive of families and she lead by example; often bringing her baby to work with her or working from home so she could breastfeed. I don't have kids, but if I would have gotten…

Logically I certainly get this. I really do. I just cannot do it. Lol

Lol, ok. It's just so crazy to me that some people are all "maybe it's real." No folks. It's not. You and I know it's not and just because she refuses to talk about it, let's just all collectively agree that god-blessed ass doesn't sit like, move like...nor is it shaped like anything that Nicki Minaj or Kim K has.

About the whole "marry him for his money" thing, I think most people don't realize that a lot of these women meet these men when they are broke as f-ck in college. They carry on the normal/standard college relationship and then he usually takes her along for the ride as he already knows her, can usually trust her and…

There were a few. One was a labor union, the other a grassroots solar company and another was an educational program back in the midwest. Since I graduated college, I have only had to contribute to my healthcare once. The rest of them were free. I worked so long with one company that when I switched and they told me…

That kinda sucks. One of the trade-offs of working non-profit seems to be a lower salary than what you might get corporate, but much better benefits.

People come on...you THINK she's had butt implants? I know black women* seem to be more naturally curvy in the hip/booty area so maybe you are confused. But, please, please, please know that no NATURAL ASS looks like that. Ever. None. Not one.

I really wish all companies operated like non-profits where benefits are concerned. Free healthcare, low co-pay, 5 weeks vacation that ROLLS OVER year to year, additional PTO and sick leave of about 2 weeks, 3 months paid maternity and PATERNITY leave and the option to work from home to incorporate work-life balance,…

A long time ago I had this co-worker who used to wear the most ridiculously low-cut blouses and v-neck tees to work. She used to accentuate her "neck line" with a variety of necklaces that all ended up with a charm dangling just above her cleavage. She was pretty young (we all were about 24ish) and, admittedly her…

Yeah, the best one was in the newest Batman series with Christian Bale. I can't remember the actor's name and I'm too lazy to google it but hands down he is the best Alfred ever.

I totally agree with this. Even though she had this really successful career, she wanted a family too. She got it, but people act like because she didn't "Pink" it, she was somehow less "cool" of a person.

Phadrea shade gives Nene's a run for the money. It's perfectly sweet, hilarious and biting all at once.

I will not go to the bathroom with a tampon in if I know I have to poop. If it's a "oh hey...number 2 is coming" surprise poop after peeing, I'll STILL take it out because I'd be hella paranoid about leaving it in and something "getting" on it. Just...no.

Chili is such a let-down. I loved TLC when I was younger and I thought she was super cool, along with the rest of the group. Between her dating show and her Twitter, I find her to be obnoxious and it puts a bad taste in my mouth for their music.