YES. Which is also why women are not supposed to care about looks when it comes to dating. But everyone cares about looks and physical attraction in who they date, and that doesn't make you a bad person or shallow as long as it's not your only criteria. I wouldn't judge a guy who prefers women with big tits as long as…

This wasn't directed at Mark.

Totally. It's just another way that misogynists deny our humanity. Fuck that. I'm not a creature designed to cater to men's needs. I'm a human person. I have visceral desires. I want a big dick. Deal with it.

I think that as women we're expected to be emotionally dependent and nurturing. We're supposed to be "above" judging men's bodies. If we don't enthusiastically accept tiny dicks, we're being bad women.

Goddamn I love this comment.

I think it's okay to have a preference for dicks that are not small and further I don't really give a rat's what your penis thinks about small boobs or the fact that this was posted on Jez and there is no counterpart about gaping vaginas. Women are told by everyone and their mother both directly and indirectly that…

Nobody cares about your (tiny) stupid boner.

She is! Super sassy Malaysian lady who moved to Australia with my Aussie dad in 1978 and will straight up cut anyone who suggests she's some kind of subservient mail-order bride type. God bless that woman.

Pharrell's 'post-racial' thing doesn't feel like denial and delusion to me. I think because of his talent and personality (and probably his looks) his experience has been genuinely different from a lot of us. But I also wonder whether his experience is becoming increasingly common and whether that alone can validate…

She was also in Jacob's ladder, which is maybe the most mind fuck movie ever! Regardless, RIP, Pena was one of the few Latina actresses of her era who wasn't typecasted as feisty maid or sexpot.

Anyone else seeing folks post stuff about how "all the good men should take note and stock up for their wives!" re: potential chocolate shortages? I get that people distance themselves and make stupid jokes so as not to confront the awfulness in the world, but good grief. It's a gross joke when people aren't dying at…

It's also affecting women at a much higher rate, as they are the ones who care for the sick and usually prepare bodies for burial. They are also traditionally the farmers for the staple food crops (men typically focus on cash crops like cocoa - stuff that makes money but that they don't eat). So, there's a very real…

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Why don't we just not call anyone a slut and just let people sleep with whom they want and not give them the negative stigma of being a slut or whore as long as they are comfortable with their life and are being safe and no one is hurt?

You bring up the dichotomy I have always noticed. There are the guys that say "all women look sexier in heels and should wear them 24/7" and then there are the guys that say "High heels are stupid. Women are stupid for wearing them" (not your words I know). There is no winning except just to do what you want to do…

A fact? Would you mind telling that to the last two guys I dated, whose respective comments the one time I wore heels on dates with each of them were, "Please take those off, I hate knowing your feet hurt" & "Wow, those look uncomfortable!"

If anything, Steve was a victim of Miranda. She treated him like wholesale shit for 6 seasons, and then he marries her? And even then on their honeymoon she is losing her shit at the thought of spending 3 days alone with him without Internet. Like, bring a book, dummy. She was such an asshole. I never blamed him for…

Interesting - Did he have ANY friends? We never met any, did we? What kind of guy has no friends or family?

except he did cheat....on his then-wife WITH Carrie. So wtf is he talking about?

Haven't seen the second Sex and the City movie but can we all agree that the jilting at the altar in the first one would not have happened had Big had a best man or indeed any friends at all to talk to and calm him down?