this is what my husband and I have been doing. We've only been married a few months so we're still working that necessary amount for our joint checking account.

the craziest part of this is that he's a twin too and he's not sharing!! okay, perhaps it's all crazy.

ugh and he thinks his co-anchor is overreacting, you can see his shock at her "frowning" at him at the end. c'mon guy... this was just painful. I feel so bad for Anna. and every other woman this kind of shit happens to on the regular.

lol my mistake. i think i read that too early in the morning!

ugh, how was he a finalist on top chef??

that is really cute! thanks for letting me know.

lol i hope you meant to write Boston terrier? though i'm not a dog person so i dunno, maybe that's a new name of a mutt breed i've never heard of...

are these really worthy of being called life-hacks, at all? i love this site for the interesting things it can teach you but this... these are just things people should know. come on.

we both like to sleep on our sides, him on his right and me on my left, so we chose the side of the bed that enables us to do that while facing each other.

i am trying a solution to this problem with my husband - a white noise app that i can focus on instead of his breathing. it's just been a week but its definitely better than trying to sleep over VERY LOUD BREATHING. i tried airplane noise first, which was okay since i travel a lot and i'm used to that sound. last…

lol well no, not mad. I don't have kids so it's not like I'm personally upset by your claim. but I have this thing called empathy that helps me to understand other people's feelings without having experienced the situation myself.

i wish i had advice fo ryou but i don't have kids. i just wanted to say i read your comment and wished you all the sleep and peace possible for a mother of 2 little ones.

you can hold your i'm-a-superior-mommy BS to yourself. esp since the article you're commenting on acknowledges that the majority of parents do not experience a drop in happiness upon the birth of a 2nd child. your experience of being awesome doesn't negate those who do have a hard time with it. nor does it add…

i'm not sure but i took it to mean that blackness is not the only part of identity — like he just realized that we exist on multiple axes of identity yet we overlook an axis if we're in the dominant/mainstream end of it. i.e. he's black and a man, but he had just thought of himself as "black." because the man part is…

Re Indian women searching about eating papaya — it's because of an old wives tale that says eating papaya during pregnancy causes miscarriages. they are probably googling to find out if it's true or not.

no. no one would meet two Smiths in the same geographical area and ask if they are related.

thank you for your comment. people can mean well and still be ridiculously racist and stereotyping. in fact when racist people say they are not racist, they are saying they don't MEAN to be racist so it shouldn't count.

it's offensive because a non-minority only says "oh, i love (respective cuisine)!" when meeting that minority in order to establish a feeling of common ground — like, "oh i know parts of your culture and i love them .. like i'm one of the cool americans that is down with diversity." Whereas the minority already…

i personally like a tan on me because it evens my skin tone out from masala chai with spots of caramel to a nice smooth caramel.

haha what a great description. my family is living through a similar situation (though it's "just" elderly illness causing the guilt tripping and toxicity, not pills) and i tell you, had i known the movie it was going to be, i would have saved myself tension. it just just darker and darker and then ended so...…