An actual tignon or just a scarf? If it’s a scarf, I say rock it 1950s style, which I find very cute. If it’s a tignon, I’d say no because there’s a lot of cultural history there and I’ve never seen a tignon on any person who is not Black. I’m African-American and my great aunt’s family are deeply connected to their…

I would just use a scarf.

Can you find a style of head wrap that’s not associated with specific religions or ethnicities? How about an Old Hollywood scarf with winged sunglasses and red lipstick to match?

And then he went on to say, “Buenas tardes” to Rep. Grijalva, “Ciao ciao” to Rep. Napolitano, “Woof!” to Rep. Labrador, “’sup?” to Rep McEachin, “Auf Wiedersehen” to Rep. Radewagen, and just shrugged in Rep. Gohmert’s direction.

what the fuck yall really

I know a lot of cisgay men who watch as well. It’s not just women.

I think with our life insurance policies in the mix, my wife and I are each others most valuable assets. Capitalism sucks.

+1 Quiver full.

When I asked my wife to marry me I said, “will you be one of my most important assets?” Who could resist such romance?

I held a grudge against him for saying he wanted to hit a woman he saw using a Kindle on an airplane. This was 9 or so years ago. Then I accepted I was being petty. So, I read a lot by him, and really liked his writing. I can’t say I regret reading him, but obviously that’s done.

THIS IS A NEUTRAL COMMENT, FREE OF CONFLICT AND OPINION.

I haven’t read it but I believe Edwidge Danticat wrote her latest book The Art of Death as a response to her mother’s passing.

This sucks. I really like his work and we really need more Native American writers. They don’t all have the same audience as Louise Erdrich.

So so so incredibly disappointed. I’ve been reading his latest book to as a guide to get through the loss of my mother and now I have to stop. As a black woman it’s starting to feel like we can only trust other WOC. If anyone has heard of a book about grieving your mother by a woman of color let me know!

Eve Tuck’s response is spot on. At this point, it seems like it’s not aberrant behavior but rather just one of many possible options for men look to gain power.

Not to nitpick, AB, but your section could use an editor..