You're an ass.

I was 38/39. That's when it lifted. I'd had periods of being OK before then, and maybe this is another one of those, but I don't think so, it feels different. I rarely get really low anymore and thoughts of ending everything have gone.

Exactly. Yelling stresses me out. Seriously, I get anxiety from it. So I don't do it.

Thanks but this is my second marriage.

It's working for us. Ofc 'normal' is relative, I'm a woman, my spouse is a woman. Normal for us but we've had people tell us it isn't.

We have disagreements but those are never raised voices/arguments or fighting.

Of course. But those are settled without an argument or fight. Life is short - plus we've both been in past abusive relationships and we've learned a lot.

I saw that recently and my reaction was 'Yay! Oh, I did that weeks back :('

In simplistic terms, and IMO: Argument = raised voices. Disagreement = conversation.

This is a good point.

'I don't want to be judgmental, but' you're going to be anyway. Myself and my partner haven't had an argument in nearly three years. Thanks for calling us odd. :(

Yes, she should run. Now.

This. Just because he's not abusive to her now doesn't mean it isn't going to happen. Get the eff away from this guy.

Er, what? Communication and disagreements can be settled without ever arguing.

Don't worry about it. Everyone is different. I've been with my spouse nearly three years, we've yet to have an argument.

Star Wars sets also include female Jedi. It's not like Lego hasn't been producing female figures forever but the ratio of male to female was massively off. On my Ghostbusters lego set I swapped the male heads with female heads and have my own all female Ghostbusters team :D

#notallwomen ...

Except they haven't really released it. I tried to buy this set a couple of days ago, it is USA only. I can't buy it from http://shop.lego.com/en-CA/#shopxli… here in Canada.

'Sweetie'? No, it's not me embarrassing myself.

Sigh, no, I actually really enjoy She-Hulk. I wasn't talking about the character but the way the naming, the creation, apes the male characters rather than them be wholly new characters. The copying of the male is the point.